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When do you get past it? My numbers doubled, my tests are still dark, though the test line never got darker than the control on my $store tests, it came up super fast today. I am not going to test anymore, I am about 22 or 23 days past when I think I conceived. I am calmer than I have been in the past, but I am still so scared. My breasts are not as sore today and I feel panicked. When do you relax? I am hoping to get to see the heartbeat in 2 weeks, but even then I will be thinking of Kai's second trimester loss. I am sorry to be so whiny and needy, but I am a bit of a mess.
Honestly, I am 22 weeks along and I still have fears. I just take it a day at a time and do what I can to stay positive. I'm hoping that maybe after I get past the point of losing Eli (26 weeks) it might get a little better but I don't know. Don't worry about being whiny and needy, that's what we're here for.
To be honest for me NEVER After my 20 week loss I hate being pregnant just because I can not enjoy it. I run to the bathroom all the time to make sure I am not bleeding. I test all the time.. When I was pregnant with Kaetlin and saw the heartbeat several times on the ultrasound screen I still was not convinced that everything was going to be ok... I was not ok with things until I held her in my arms. So post away. Whin away. We all understand what you are going through and have been there ourselves ..Big hugs