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June 6th, 2010, 01:23 AM
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I am cramping really bad.. on and off. I feel like I am having labor pains. Not sure if I should call the labor and delievery.. No spotting at all. Friday night I had some mucus that had a little red tint to it then that night we dtd. I have been fine all day not problems other than a really bad headache.I am also having some back pain along with the cramps. hell this is why I did not want ot get pregnant again.. I hate not knowing what is going on.. Of course I went out and bought some baby clothes today..I hate to call the doc at 3 am and it be nothing.. I wouldnt think anything was wrong with the baby since I just had a ultrasound done Thursday and the baby was fine with a heartbeat of 170 and was measuring right down to the day. 10 weeks 4 days..... Can someone go into labor at 11 weeks is that even possible ???? oh god I am not sure what to do.. if this continues I think I am going to wake Dh and call the labor and delievery I dont want to wait to soon..


WEll it is now 5 :30 am . I called the ob and they said at this point to relax there is nothing we can dol.. WEll I just got up and had a gush of blood and went to the bathroom and passed a large clot.. TMI AGAIN. There was nothing in it. I was expecting to find my little baby inside.. I am off to call the ob and I expect the worst..


Updated again.... Well I got the hospital and I swear I hate the er.... I waited and waited.. I had a pelvic exam and after that I started bleeding more and passing more clots.. I did lose the baby. I just do not understand how that happened...Lot of emotions are going through my head right now... We got to see the baby and of cousre no camera. But I could not beleive how much he already looked alike a baby. All 10 toes and fingers , you could see his tiny ears and rib cage. And yes I did say he. I was right. You could see the penis ...I just can not beleive this is happening to me again......
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June 6th, 2010, 02:46 AM
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im sorry to hear you are cramping so badly. I got a lot of cramping in early pregnancy. Just stretching and things getting ready for the months to come.. making room for baby to grow and all that jazz.

I hope for that its just the same for you.. but if in doubt go get checked out! *hugs* if nothing else it will give you some piece of mind and the stress obviously can't be any good for you either.
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June 6th, 2010, 05:28 AM
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I'm so sorry you are going through this... I will Keep you in my thoughts and prayers and hope everything with the little one is still OK... there could be other reasons for your bleeding! Please keep us posted...
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June 6th, 2010, 07:57 AM
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oh no. thinking of you!!! hope the baby is ok!!!
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June 6th, 2010, 02:09 PM
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June 6th, 2010, 02:24 PM
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I'm holding out hope that you will get some good news at the OB.

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June 6th, 2010, 04:39 PM
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Im sorry. dont give up hope, I hope baby ok.
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June 6th, 2010, 04:50 PM
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I'm sending lots of positive vibes your way.

KUP. I'm so sorry you are going through this
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June 6th, 2010, 04:54 PM
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I am so sorry. Are you going to have any testing done? Maybe you can find out what's causing your losses.
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June 6th, 2010, 04:58 PM
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I am so so sorry you are going through this! Thinking of you!
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June 6th, 2010, 05:20 PM
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June 6th, 2010, 06:39 PM
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Mary, I am devestated for you.....I am so sorry this has happened again, it is so not fair! Many thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
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June 6th, 2010, 07:04 PM
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family.
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June 6th, 2010, 07:23 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss
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June 6th, 2010, 08:55 PM
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I'm so so sorry for your loss! My thoughts are you.
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June 6th, 2010, 09:35 PM
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Mary, I am so so so very sorry !!!
you and your family will be in my thoughts.....please know that we are all here for you.
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June 7th, 2010, 05:28 AM
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oh I am so sorry!!! I am glad you got to see the baby, I hope that gives you some comfort and closure. You will be in my thoughts and prayers... I am so sorry you are going through this
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June 7th, 2010, 06:42 AM
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I am so so sorry
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June 7th, 2010, 06:48 AM
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Oh Mary I am so sorry for your loss, its is just horrible. I am sure your baby boy was very beautiful.
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June 7th, 2010, 07:59 AM
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Thanks you everyone for your kind words. RIght now I feel like it has not sunk it yet that I am no longer going to have another child....I could not believe the pain I was in yesterday and still today.. I feel like I have been punched in the stomach over and over again.... I did have a natural miscarriage. The specialist removed some by hand and man did that kill.......Dh I and I do not have the urge to get pregnant again.. meaning I will never be pregnant again.. It is a sad thing to think about.. But I do have 4 healthy beautiful children at home....I just can believe a person can go from a perfect ultrasound 3 days earlier to having a miscarraige..... I might be doing some testing not for sure since we are done having children now... I might have the test done for the clotting disorder ( do not know the name)
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