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November 30th, 2010, 05:31 AM
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I woke up this am, bbs aren't sore and I wasn't up to pee last night at all, I'm really scared. My hcg yesterday was 98, I had a pos office preg test. I have a req for repeat hcg weekly, should I go tomorrow to see if it doubled? Maybe I should just wait until next Monday. I don't know.
I bought two pair of mat pants yesterday off summer clearance, did I jinx myself? Why does there have to be so much fear in subsequent pregnancies?
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November 30th, 2010, 07:47 AM
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i understand your fear completely. i pray that your numbers come back doubled and tripled!

it is only natural to be extra nervous and scared after you have been thru a loss. the rose colored pregnancy glasses are off and reality has set in.

i pray your been is super sticky!
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November 30th, 2010, 07:59 AM
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This is so normal but in early pregnancy symptoms can come and go for no reason. Praying you have a sticky bean!
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November 30th, 2010, 09:10 AM
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thank you ladies! I have some passing nausea today, and I can't bend over, new from yesterday, so either I'm getting fatter, or baby is getting fatter.
I need to learn to stop trying to be in control and just roll with it.
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November 30th, 2010, 12:54 PM
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I know how you feel. I have been questioning everything this time around. The one thing that the ladies here have told me that has really, really helped is to focus one the mini-milestones. So, for me, my weeks start on Thursday, everytime Thursday comes and goes, I feel more relieved that I am that much further. It's funny I think I have come to thank God every Thursday for keeping baby and I healthy.

Hang in there....
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November 30th, 2010, 01:06 PM
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I definitely know how you feel. Even though I ended up being further along when finding out then the last time I was always really nervous. There was a lot of things I was afraid to do because I didn't want to jinx myself. I've done what telgoodell and every tuesday is my mini milestone that i'm moving on to the next week.

I will be praying for you and your bean and that s/he is a very sticky one!
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November 30th, 2010, 01:29 PM
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I know early pregnancy after loss is SUPER scary, but try not to worry too much. My symptoms came and went tons in the beginning.
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November 30th, 2010, 04:14 PM
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I bought two more hpt's today to get me through the weekend until my hcg on Monday--thank you ladies
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November 30th, 2010, 04:23 PM
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My symptoms can and went all the time. (((hugs))) I know how scary it is! It does get easier though.
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November 30th, 2010, 08:01 PM
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early pregnancy worries suck, hang in there
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November 30th, 2010, 09:13 PM
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Just so you know, I'm going to be super-annoying as long as I get to stay here, this board is what got me through 40 weeks with DS1, I was here more than my DDC
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December 1st, 2010, 10:34 AM
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As you know, symptoms will vary from pregnancy to pregnancy. I had zero EPS - zero! No sore bbs, no nausea, etc until I was about 9 weeks. Even then they were mild - my bbs still aren't sore (although I'm definitely not complaining about it).
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December 1st, 2010, 12:37 PM
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thank you Kimberley-I can't believe its almost time for you!!
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