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I agree! When my DDC was going through the loss phase, I just didn't read the loss threads.... I felt bad, because I knew they needed support, but I just couldn't take it. They made me very panicky and depressed....
Erica I know what you mean... I do read them and try to offer some support, but it's so hard LOATHE it. So afraid of it myself, not to be selfish and I'm trying to be positive... altho I know they do need all the support they can get right now.
Brittaine, I was thinking the same thing before you posted this... I had been lurking thru the posts there and saw a few more ladies. I HATE that this is happening to them.... another thing I was thinking of when TTCAL has been going thru this boom is how there's always going to be someone replacing each who leaves. It just sucks, sucks the hugest balls in the universe. It really was getting me down when the reality sunk in... I've been sitting there for many months watching people leave and new ones coming in... sometimes it seemed like more joined than ever left until the booms happen. Idk, my heart hurts for everyone.
I totallly understand.. I have just lurked alot in the DDC for now. I don't really feel comfortable posting yet.. I have posted on a couple of the loss threads when I get a chance to come on and see them.. Only cause I have been in thier shoes 4 times, and I know the pain.. I remember how it made me feel to see all the ladies comments even when I was wishing it wasn't me.. Regardless of my outcome this time around I am still trying to offer my support, and it kills me to see some of my closer ladies having to go through this again.. My heart breaks for each one of them.. HUGS
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I just feel lost right now. There has been so much sadness this past week. I hope no one minds but I made a blinkie for the August DDC. I just don't know what else I can do. I'm having some of my own issues right now and may be taking a break from the boards for awhile. I don't think all the sadness has been helping and it's effecting me so much more this time that it ever did in my other DDC's. I just hope there are no more, especially the TTCAL graduates.
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