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January 8th, 2011, 07:31 AM
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I went to the bathroom this morning and my cm is reddish-brown tinged. It's not even spotting at the moment, but I know you ladies know how it feels to see anything slightly reddish colored.

I spotted with Cora and Erin...but it was usually after sex or something, and DH and I haven't dtd in at least a week.


I'm trying so hard to be positive right now. But I'm seriously on the verge of tears.
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January 8th, 2011, 08:23 AM
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Deep breaths hun... as you said, it's not even spotting yet!!! Drink some extra water and try to take it a little easy today, and hopefully that's just the end of it. Your cervix can get so sensitive that even normal bending and moving around can irritate it, without even BDing. And if you spotting after BD with 2 of your others, you probably do have a sensitive cervix.
I know it's scary but I think you're gonna be okay. Just wait and see...
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January 8th, 2011, 08:40 AM
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Dr always told me "Blood without pain is normal" and "pain without blood is ok"..Stay positive and sending prayers for you and skittles.
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January 8th, 2011, 10:05 AM
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Hugs ..... Drink lots of water today and take it easy...it is scary ton see that, it will be ok.hugs agian
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January 8th, 2011, 10:28 AM
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Good news is it hasn't gotten worse. I'm calming down. Between you ladies and a sweet friend of mine, I'm feeling a lot better. Thanks for letting me freak out!
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January 8th, 2011, 11:53 AM
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January 8th, 2011, 12:10 PM
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Glad that is gotten better, That is what we are here for !!! I am not sure how many posts I made about me spotting !!!! We all do it !
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January 8th, 2011, 12:40 PM
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Dr always told me "Blood without pain is normal" and "pain without blood is ok"..Stay positive and sending prayers for you and skittles.
She's right.

It was bright red blood with clots AND pain that made me know my pregnancy was over. I know it is scary after reading about everyone's miscarriages, but most likely everything is fine.
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January 8th, 2011, 04:00 PM
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Honestly, I think I probably would have freaked had there not been a recent rash of miscarriages. I'm paranoid like that. lol


I got pretty crampy after throwing up after lunch, but the red's gone now, and so is the cramping, so I'm okay I think.

I can't wait until my u/s on the 17th!!
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January 8th, 2011, 04:15 PM
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I bled even with good sized clots with Daniel. I was 100% sure it was over...and he is asleep in his swing

I am glad it stopped and hope the 17th comes very fast for you.

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