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March 24th, 2011, 01:20 PM
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I can't see my nurse until tomorrow and I feel like I am starting to panic. I hate this. I can't wait until next week when hopefully I won't go through days like today. I will be over the hump . No spotting, no cramping no nothing. But this was the point that CJ's heart stopped. I know if its there Friday we are good but ack I keep thinking I am going to go in and get bad news. Which is why I won't go in today. I will only see my nurse. Weird I know. I just need a little help to relax until I can get in tomorrow.
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March 24th, 2011, 01:27 PM
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Jess....hang in there, your gonna be ok. Just one more day and your past most of this craziness and will be able to breathe a little. I know its hard not to compare the two pregnancies, but this little one IS YOUR RAINBOW baby, and you WILL see a beautiful h/b tomorrow with a ton of flips again!!!
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March 24th, 2011, 01:46 PM
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Oh Jess. I'm sorry you're going through this. It's so hard for you because you've had such late losses.

Maybe you should consider renting a doppler? Maybe that would put your mind at ease? I hope you get over this hump and feel calmer and find some peace of mind!!
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March 24th, 2011, 02:09 PM
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Distraction. That's the only thing that gets me by. When I become anxious, I have to create something to just keep me busy. I've done a lot of cleaning, read a lot of books and spent a lot of time just planning out my days so I won't have time to think about how far I am or am not. Sometimes, just knowing that I'm one hour closer, helps.

Hang in there. I don't think any of us ever really relax, but I also think we appreciate every moment we have a little more too.
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March 24th, 2011, 02:30 PM
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Thanks ladies. I talked to my BFF too and she said that I need to relax . I am drinking water and we both noticed when I do to much the achiness comes back and that makes me worry more. I think I need to talk to my dr about my hours. I don't know if he will help or not but its worth a shot. I am going to ask tomorrow when I get the appointment for the heartbeat check. Thanks for the encouragement ladies.
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March 24th, 2011, 02:49 PM
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Thinking of you Jess. I know it's hard but try to stay positive!
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March 24th, 2011, 02:50 PM
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Thanks Katie You are such a strong women.
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March 24th, 2011, 02:52 PM
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Thanks Katie You are such a strong women.
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March 24th, 2011, 07:43 PM
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So the evil mama got a dr pepper with dinner and I would put money on the fact I felt movement . It happens whenever I drink a dr pepper. Little jabs and flutters. Nothing major just light ones but still there. It helps me feel better. I am not beneath using sugar to make me feel better
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March 24th, 2011, 10:12 PM
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Thank goodness for Dr Pepper. If you need a little sugar, I say go for it. It's hard to remember to breathe, but just take a few slow calming breaths and try to relax. I'll be watching for an update tomorrow.
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March 24th, 2011, 11:19 PM
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March 25th, 2011, 05:31 AM
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Thinking of you Jess. I will be watching for an update later on today.
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March 25th, 2011, 05:39 AM
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Good luck Jess, I know this has been a tough week or so for you!!!!! I'm glad the Dr Pepper helped I love me some Dr. Pepper as a treat when I go out for lunch sometimes, it's a habit I picked up in the South
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March 25th, 2011, 09:28 AM
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Thinking of you Jess! Hope things are going well today. Dr. Pepper sounds good to me if it does the trick!

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March 25th, 2011, 09:50 AM
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Updated in the Final Milestone post . Thanks for all the support ladies.
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