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March 31st, 2011, 04:43 PM
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With my son I had no symptoms whatsoever, with my loss I had them all. This one is kind of a mix between the two, I'm sick, tired, but my boobs arent' sore at all....I know that they don't mean anything (obviously, since I had nothing with my son!) but then I started to think well maybe HAVING symptoms for me isn't a good sign?!? I know that's completely crazy but it just popped into my head. My u/s is next weds and I'm super worried that something is going to be wrong, that either the baby won't be there or i'll be measuring too far behind to see anything yet. The dr said based on my HCG levels from last fri that we should see something on the u/s though so lets hope....Today is the first day I've actually been worried...up til now it's been very calm for me...I'll just be so glad once it's weds!
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March 31st, 2011, 04:59 PM
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Rachel I know it's hard but try to stay as positive as you can. Thinking of you!
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March 31st, 2011, 05:02 PM
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U/S always make me anxious. I always worry they are going to give me bad news even when I have no reason to suspect that. I hope that you can relax a little and have a great u/s. Did you put it on our handy calendar? That way we can remember to ask you for an update . I didn't get sore boobs until last week . And that is different for me. Each pregnancy is different. Try not to worry. I know its hard. We are here though and we understand so post, vent, stress here all you need.
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March 31st, 2011, 05:29 PM
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Don't stress...keep positive thoughts in your mind! Wednesday will be here before you know it! If you are totally freaked, call and see if they can get you in tomorrow...if you live close by. My dr's been so great, if I feel freaked, they tell me come on in and let's check it out...Explain your feelings and dont feel bad! FYI, I had a sono at 4w4 day not by my choice, but Dr wanted it...there was enough to see that things were going ok, so if you get it done before Wed..its not too soon!

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April 1st, 2011, 05:32 AM
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I know it is hard not to worry... ((Hugs)) We have to hold onto faith that this is our time for our rainbow babies.
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April 1st, 2011, 06:25 AM
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I know those worries do start creeping in over time Hopefully time flies by for you and Wednesday is here before you know it!
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April 1st, 2011, 06:58 AM
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It's so normal to have fears like that, irrational as they may be... ultrasounds are STRESSFUL, especially the first one!!!! Soon it will be behind you. I hope Wednesday comes quickly for you!!! Good luck!!!!
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April 1st, 2011, 09:36 AM
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Thank you guys, everytime those thoughts creep into my head I just switch to thinking about something else...I'm trying so hard to not even think about it. I had some really light cramping last night for like 20 minutes, I'm sure that's normal for how early I am but I'm going to call the dr anyways just to be sure.
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April 1st, 2011, 09:41 AM
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Cramping throughout your pregnancy is normal and a sign of a growing uterus and baby. But I agree that calling the dr will help put those fears aside. I find that if my water intake gets to low I get more crampy. So try to rest and drink plenty of fluids.
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April 1st, 2011, 09:47 AM
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I have not cramped in the last 2 days! My doctor said it is totally normal and as long as there is no blood not to worry. I hope it is the same for you.
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April 1st, 2011, 12:03 PM
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Thanks ladies, as you said (and I suspected), it is normal they said. It's wierd though because right after I left a message with them about last night's cramping I started cramping on my left side (I ovulated from that side so it could just be the ovary cyst) and I had to take some tylenol and lay down! It's gone now and no blood or spotting. Ugh, I hate all this worry! Just trying to think of other things, when it pops into my mind I think of waterfalls which is so random and then I laugh at mysefl (in my head) for being so random and start thinking of other things so at least that works! lol
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April 2nd, 2011, 12:08 PM
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You just have to remember every pregnancy is different. I have had no symptoms for my miscarriage and for this one. I'm doing fine. . I'm sure you'll do the same!


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