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April 9th, 2011, 05:30 PM
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I wasn't sure where to post this, so I thought here might be the best place. Today is my due date for my sweet boy David Malachi that I lost last October at 13 weeks. Out of all my four losses this one obviously hit me the hardest and I still cry now and again. Knowing that if he was here right now I wouldn't have the baby girl that is currently inside me is a double edged sword. I am so in love with her right now, but I am also in love with my baby boy. I guess I have enough heart to love them both, just her now, and him in my heart until we get to meet again. I blogged a bit about him if you want to read. My blog address is in my siggy....

Thanks for listening!
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April 9th, 2011, 05:33 PM
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I am sorry Julie... ((hugs))

I know how much you love David.
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April 9th, 2011, 05:35 PM
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I remember when that happened in October hun. I'm so sorry you lost your little boy...

I'm also glad you have made it past 20 weeks with your girl now, wow! Time flies...
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April 9th, 2011, 06:12 PM
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Hugs Julie. I said a prayer for your sweet boy. I know how hard I took my son (first loss). Please know I am here if you want to talk... ever.
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April 9th, 2011, 06:22 PM
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it's one of those bitter sweet things in life. I'm so sorry about your loss but so excited for your little girl. It's great that he was able to come to such a great mom where he will be remembered and be with someday.
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April 9th, 2011, 06:28 PM
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I'm sorry hun. I've been thinking about you, Lindsey and Lori these past few days, now that April is here.... Love you!
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April 9th, 2011, 07:24 PM
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I am so sorry. Its a bitter sweet day for you. Love the foot shot in your siggie .
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April 9th, 2011, 08:22 PM
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April 9th, 2011, 08:31 PM
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Thanks guys....I know there are only a few places here on JM where other women can relate to loss, but also pregnancy after loss. Thanks ladies, your all the very best and may our sweet babies watch over all of us....
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April 10th, 2011, 01:44 AM
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((((((((hugs)))))))))
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April 10th, 2011, 02:47 AM
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to you and your baby boy!!
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April 10th, 2011, 07:13 AM
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I am so sorry. Due dates can be so hard.
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April 10th, 2011, 08:24 AM
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I'm so sorry, Julie I think you are an amazing mommy to all of your little ones.
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April 10th, 2011, 10:21 AM
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HUGS! I know for me the anniversary of the due dates are also the hardest. I have two that would have been due in April and it is hard not to think about what your life would be like if these babies were in our arms. I am glad that you took some time today to think about and honour your sweet baby boy. Take care of yourself.
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April 10th, 2011, 12:20 PM
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((hugs)) and love to you
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April 11th, 2011, 04:42 PM
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((HUGS)) I felt this way in January on my due date for our lost baby too. It was bittersweet because I was expecting this baby and I felt so torn.

Thinking of you and your sweet boy today.
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