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  #1  
May 20th, 2011, 07:32 PM
MissingRyder10's Avatar Missing my little boy
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I lost my 5 month son Ryder on 12/22/2010,i went through a nasty divorce two weeks later and have been bashed as a mother by tons of people cuz nobody understands SIDS.I have a boyfriend whom i have been with for 4 months and i just found out that i am pregnant again,i have alot of fears of losing another baby and i haven't gotten the help and support i needed about my son's death.
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May 20th, 2011, 08:01 PM
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A sad but warm welcome to the board. I am so saddened to hear that you are not getting any support you need for the sudden loss of your son. it breaks my heart to hear about an infant dying because of SIDS. Congratulations on your current pregnancy! The fears are normal and unfortunately unavoidable after loss. Please stick around! These ladies are an amazing support system for me. We come from all walks of life with many different kinds of loss.
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May 20th, 2011, 10:40 PM
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Welcome to the board. I am so sorry for what you have been through and that you don't have very good support. We are here anytime you need us and we are fun to boot . I had a friend go through a loss of a child with SIDS, it was very hard on him. Congratulations on your new pregnancy and wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months.
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May 20th, 2011, 11:37 PM
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I"m so sorry for your loss.
Welcome to this board. I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months and we are here to talk whenever you need too. I'm sorry you aren't getting very much support.
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May 21st, 2011, 08:02 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. That is absolutely heartbreaking I really hope that you can find the support you need. Welcome to the board.
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May 21st, 2011, 09:23 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss and the fact that you haven't gotten support around you. Welcome to the board, I hope it is comforting to you in those times of need.
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May 21st, 2011, 09:37 AM
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My heart aches for you. No mother should ever have to go through this.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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May 21st, 2011, 12:51 PM
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Welcome to the board. My sister lost her 3 month old foster baby to sids while staying with me. It's not something anyone should have to go through alone. I'm sorry you aren't getting more support. Maybe you could try talking to a professional counselor, and of course, we are here too. 8 hope you have a great 9 months.
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May 21st, 2011, 05:13 PM
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((hugs)) I am so sorry for your loss. Very heartbreaking.
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May 21st, 2011, 05:50 PM
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and welcome to PAL, I'm so sorry about Ryder

I hope this new pregnancy is the start of new and better things for you.
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May 21st, 2011, 06:00 PM
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I am so so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how heartbreaking this is. Have you tried to talk to someone in your area who can connect you IRL to others who have been through similar?

I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months.
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