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  #1  
May 26th, 2011, 06:41 AM
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Hi ladies, my name is Aimie and DS is William 13 months. I had a loss (missed m/c) in Feb at 10wks 5days. (baby stopped growing at 8wks 5days) We just found out Tuesday that we are pregnant again....whhhhooooo hooooooo I got a very very faint pos on 8dpo (thought it was a evap) Then another pos 9 dpo (still thought it could be an evap) Took a digi yesterday 10dpo and !!!!! I am really excited, but also so scared, bc I have no clue what cause my last m/c, and I didnt start bleeding AT ALL and the baby had stopped growing 2 weeks prior! It just freaks me out, any advice from all you brave mamas!
I am so happy to be joining you
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May 26th, 2011, 07:56 AM
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Congratulations, Aimie. I'm sorry for you loss, but you've found the right place. This board is great for all your posts, whether they be worried, celebratory, or just to pass the time. I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months. Pregnancy after a loss is fraught with worry, but we all are here to help you through it.

I'm Amy, pregnant with my 3rd. I have two sons, 6 and 3, and had a loss in Aug '09. It has been a lot more worrisome this time around (no losses before either of my two sons) but these ladies have been so supportive and willing to help when my anxiety gets high.

Best of luck to you, and welcome again!
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May 26th, 2011, 08:00 AM
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Welcome and congrats!

I'm sorry for your loss. You've definitely come to the right place. You'll find the girls here to be supportive and totally understanding. It's hard not to worry, and we get that.

I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months.
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May 26th, 2011, 08:16 AM
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and I wish you a very healthy & happy 9 months!!!

Hopefully your doctor will be willing to give you more or earlier ultrasounds to help reassure you through the 1st trimester, after your missed m/c. Pregnancy after loss is hard no matter what, though. This board is a great support system when other people in your life just don't understand what you are going through!
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May 26th, 2011, 08:18 AM
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Thanks girls, it is so amazing that you can go to a place where people just "get it" and understand exactly what you are going through. Looking forward to an amazing 9 months with you ladies!
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May 26th, 2011, 09:12 AM
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Congratulations!! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months. You found the right place for support . We all understand the excitment and fear that goes with being pregnant after a loss. Post all you need to for support or advice. Take it one day at a time. You are pregnant today and you should enjoy it!
Have you called for your first appointment?
Will you get blood draws?
Don't forget to add yourself to the DD list .
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May 26th, 2011, 09:24 AM
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congrats and so sorry for your loss! I had a missed miscarriage also, baby stopped growing at 7wk 5 days but we didn't find out til 14 weeks 1 day! It's so hard not to trust your body, you always think with a miscarriage that you would be bleeding, so if you're not then you think everything must be ok! Be prepared to always second guess yourself this pregnancy...when we heard teh heartbeat or had u/s to show the heartbeat I'd think YAY! and then immediately say to myself, but what if it stops beating tomorrow and my body doesn't realize it again?!? It's not fun, but just trying to stay calm is the best thing, easier said then done!
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May 26th, 2011, 09:38 AM
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Welcome, welcome!! You will love this room because it is so full of women who "get it!" Glad to have you here

I am Ashlee, due with our second son in October. We had one missed miscarriage and it does make it harder to "trust" your body. But if you can try to trust it, it makes the anxiety so much lower. I did not "get" how to do it until later (around week 15) but it has made the past 6 weeks sooo much easier!
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May 26th, 2011, 09:48 AM
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Congratulations!!
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May 26th, 2011, 01:06 PM
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Welcome && Congrats!!
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May 27th, 2011, 04:00 AM
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Welcome! And I wish you a happy, healthy and joyous 9 mos!
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May 27th, 2011, 07:20 AM
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Welcome and Congrats !
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May 27th, 2011, 07:25 AM
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Welcome to the board!!! I am Rachel and pregnant with our first after 5 early miscarriages. This is the best board in my opinion! Congratulations on your pregnancy! I hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months!
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May 27th, 2011, 10:40 AM
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YAY! Aimie! I'm glad you are here!!! I don't post as much here now - but I'm still here.
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May 27th, 2011, 02:50 PM
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And welcome to the board!
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May 28th, 2011, 04:15 PM
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Congrats and welcome, and try to remember to take one day at a time... Hang in there.. Enjoy this pregnancy!!
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May 28th, 2011, 10:22 PM
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Congrats! PAL is super hard, but being here helps. We've all been there and are here for you any time!
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May 29th, 2011, 08:15 AM
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Congrats and welcome! I hope you have a healthy and happy 9 months!
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May 29th, 2011, 04:08 PM
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Congratulations!!! Sending lots of sticky dust!
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