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June 12th, 2011, 06:35 AM
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Forgive me if I have spelling errors today or typo's. I took my contacts out and can't find my glasses. I have my screen set to super old person zoom but still it is blurry.

How is your relationship with your dh/so right now? Do you fight more now that you are pregnant or are you closer?
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June 12th, 2011, 06:43 AM
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When I was pg with Mia, we were sooooo close. We worked together every day, spent all day and night together.........wich, oddly, I loved. Now that my company is shut down, Im a unemployed stay at home mom. He go's to work every day, leaving me behind. I hate it. I have closed myself off a bit. I need lots of attention and when I dont get it, I just back off emotionally. I know he's trying hard to carry the household, but I want it all. Im just impossible to please I guess........must come with age He trys to make me happy ALL day, but if I cant have my cake and eat it too, nothing will sufice!
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June 12th, 2011, 07:31 AM
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Well, aside from we are "out of commission" due to all the on and off spotting I've had...I feel like we always seem closer when we're pregnant. He picks up way more of the household responsibility...and he's just sweeter in general. He is always very "proper" when it comes to holding a door for a woman, standing if a woman approaches the table, etc....but he goes into overdrive when it's a pregnant woman and hten super overdrive when it's me.

I also think by now he realizes how flippin' hormonal I get and if he breathes on me wrong I cry. hahaha

This go-round we seem closer than ever because of our loss and then taking more than a year to get preggo again. And the mystery of who this little Bean is makes it fun and exciting. I feel bad for him that they put us out of commission again...happened with my 2nd pregnancy too. BUT, he'll live. lol
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June 12th, 2011, 08:05 AM
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When I was pregnant with Moose, we fought a lot. We both had different visions of how we wanted things to be. It was a rough time for us. (It got rougher after she was born, because I went a tad crazy. LOL)

This time around, we seem to be getting along freakishly well. LOL I keep waiting to have a ginormous fight or something. I think I'm much calmer this time, which helps, and he's learned what sets me off. He is (usuall) very careful about my feelings because he knows they are a bit tender while pregnant. I really hope we continue to get along when the baby comes.
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June 12th, 2011, 10:30 AM
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We are about the same as we always are. He does help more when I am pregnant but he is great most of the time. We have our moments were I am being hormonal but otherwise we are the same as non pregnant status .
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June 12th, 2011, 04:24 PM
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We are about the same as we always are. He does help more when I am pregnant but he is great most of the time. We have our moments were I am being hormonal but otherwise we are the same as non pregnant status .
My DH was so great about picking up my slack during the first trimester. We're really doing pretty good
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June 12th, 2011, 04:37 PM
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We are about the same as we always are. He does help more when I am pregnant but he is great most of the time. We have our moments were I am being hormonal but otherwise we are the same as non pregnant status .
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June 12th, 2011, 05:00 PM
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We are about the same...I get sensitive about things more easily then if I were not pregnant, and DH is pretty patient with me. We work through whatever differences we have and move on. He was super helpful in my first trimester when I wasn't feeling well!
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June 13th, 2011, 01:24 PM
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Our relationship is pretty much the same as it always was, except he is a bit of a mother hen. He's constantly telling me not to stress out, sit and relax, offering to do the groceries and housework...etc. I'm even winning a few more arguments than usual! And I promise that I'm not taking advantage at all...
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