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July 18th, 2011, 10:47 AM
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DTD! He says it is weird because I am pregnant and can tell I am pregnant, and "what if she moves?"

Anyone else have this problem?
Any advice on what I can do?

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July 18th, 2011, 10:57 AM
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Education is my only suggestion. But, ultimately, there's not much you can do. It's something he has to deal with in his own mind.
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July 18th, 2011, 11:37 AM
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Ugh! I totally understand how frustrating it is. My dh hardly ever wants to dtd when we are pregnant. I was so sick until last week so i didn't mind, but now I am ready to go and have been trying to convince him that it's safe/I'm fine. We go through this every pregnancy.

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July 18th, 2011, 12:01 PM
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My husband only has a problem when we're DTD and my belly is rippling because the baby is moving too much. LOL It kind of freaks him out. When I was pregnant with Moose, he wouldn't have sex with me after 7 months! He was afraid he would hurt the baby. I was like, "You're not THAT well endowed." LOL Men have silly worries.
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July 18th, 2011, 01:21 PM
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We never get to DTD while pregnant. Darn cervix and pelvic rest. I am no help, but I hope you get to have fun soon.

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July 18th, 2011, 01:31 PM
OurSweetLabs's Avatar I LOVE My Boys!!
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Originally Posted by JessP View Post
We never get to DTD while pregnant. Darn cervix and pelvic rest. I am no help, but I hope you get to have fun soon.

Donna - Mom to David and Asher

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July 18th, 2011, 03:50 PM
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DH was like this in the beginning but got over it eventually...and still, we don't do it very often because it's not really comfortable for either of us with my belly in the way and he does still have that "it's wierd" feeling. But I think when they really want it, they'll give in to it!
Mommy to Alexander, Annabella, & always missing our angel!
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July 18th, 2011, 04:41 PM
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So far the frequency has decreased somewhat but part of it is me. I have my vibrator ready as I am sure as time goes on it will get harder and harder to.

Pregnancy Loss April 2009, September 2010
CP 10/2008, 1/3/11 {missing my babies every single day}Mommy to 4 Children - 3 boys ages 22, 21 and 18 & baby Scarlett
After 2.5 years TTC with 4 losses our Family was given the gift of Miss Scarlett
Do not ever give up hope...

Miss Scarlett... Our miracle girl still brings happy tears to my eyes.

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July 19th, 2011, 12:49 AM
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I can remember DF was like that when I was pregnant with DD and really it was just not comfortable we had to "practice" and come up with new positions that we both could enjoy. This time there wasn't much problem until recently, he still thinks he caused my spotting even though the dr said there is no way.
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July 19th, 2011, 04:14 AM
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Ugh...I wish! DH is all gung-ho and I'm too tired and sore and just not into it.

When I was preggo with DD he was kinda more put off at first (he was afraid of hurting the baby), but after so long he gave into his urges

Forever missing our angel November 9, 2010, with us for 9 weeks

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July 19th, 2011, 07:10 AM
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I have been on Pelvic rest and now bed rest so no DTD for us, but I honestly am not in the mood at all anyway(too sick). Poor DH


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