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  #1  
August 13th, 2011, 05:50 AM
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I just found out last Thursday I am pregnant!! I was really surprised as I took a IC at 9 and 10 dpo and got such faint BFPís I thought they were evaps. I took my digital Thursday cause it was all I had left and got pregnant!! I took another test yesterday (12dpo) and it was nice and positive on a answer brand. I am due April 22nd!

I am not going to lie I am sort of freaked out. I wasnít the first day but I am scared to death of a miscarriage. Also I am in school right now in clinical. So itís extremely stressful with my school work. I am hoping I can manage the stress though. Dh and I are already talking about what I should do about school. Next year in April I will be in the middle of the semester. I know the school will let me stop in December if I want then come back in a year and start with the next year of clinicals but Dh isnít to happy with that idea. If I stay in school I will only have 1 week to have the baby (c-section) and then I will have to go back to school. Plus I would have to find childcare for a newborn. I really donít want to do that.

I realize I am stressing over stuff that is a long time off but I will have to make up my mind in the next 2 months about it all. Ugg! I hope you girls don't mind me letting some stress out by talking about it.


I am very very happy to be here!!!!
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August 13th, 2011, 05:55 AM
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Congrats and Welcome! I would say just take everything a day at a time. Things have a way of working themselves out. Hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months!!
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August 13th, 2011, 06:35 AM
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Congrats and ! I am so happy for you! I agree with taking it one day at a time and that things have a way of working out.
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August 13th, 2011, 06:43 AM
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Congrats and Welcome! I would say just take everything a day at a time. Things have a way of working themselves out. Hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months!!
Good advice! and congrats!
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August 13th, 2011, 07:58 AM
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Congrats! I've been trying for so long for this baby, yet everything i get pregnant i start to panic about how we will manage with two. It is totally normal but as the PP said, take it one day at a time and it will all work out!
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August 13th, 2011, 08:23 AM
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Jess!! I'm so happy to see you! I was just thinking about you the other day.



I hope you can get everything figured out! Lots and lots of sticky dust to you!
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August 13th, 2011, 08:28 AM
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Congrats!! Lots of sticky dust for you and bean!
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August 13th, 2011, 10:40 AM
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Congratulations!! Welcome to PAL! We are here anytime you need to talk. And I agree take it one day at time.
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August 13th, 2011, 12:32 PM
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Welcome and Congrats! As for April, just let it all soak in and figure things out as you go along.....it will work out either way, trust me!
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August 13th, 2011, 02:43 PM
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August 13th, 2011, 04:57 PM
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School and PAL can be so stressful (I defended my thesis at the end of my first trimester), but sometimes it is nice when life distracts you from your pregnancy worries. Welcome to the board!
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August 13th, 2011, 09:26 PM
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Congrats and welcome!! Take it one day at a time, you have plenty of time to figure out what is best for you and your family when it comes to your schooling
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August 13th, 2011, 09:42 PM
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August 14th, 2011, 12:46 AM
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Congratulations!!
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August 14th, 2011, 07:24 AM
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Congratulations!!! I know there's a lot to think about/stress over. We're here to listen anytime, but the other ladies are right...one day at a time and everything will work out. Praying for a happy, healthy 9 months for you!
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August 14th, 2011, 01:00 PM
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Thank you ladies for the welcome and the advise!! That is what I am doing now just taking it one day at a time!! I am so happy to be hear!!
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August 14th, 2011, 03:22 PM
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Congratulations! I agree with the PP, it's best just to take it one day at a time, but as someone that is constantly putting the cart before the horse, it is much easier said than done! I hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months!
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August 14th, 2011, 03:52 PM
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Congratulations and Welcome!!
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August 14th, 2011, 07:54 PM
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Congratulations! Sending lots of sticky dust your way!
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August 16th, 2011, 12:49 PM
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