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October 3rd, 2011, 10:13 AM
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succumbed to DH's depressed looks.

Between the fairly severe m/s, constipation and overall FEAR we have pretty much abstained since about 4 weeks. But I gave in yesterday afternoon. And so far no bleeding, no cramping or anything. The day before I learned/felt I lost Spud we had dtd, and although I know the loss and dtd were completely unrelated it still scares me.
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October 3rd, 2011, 10:17 AM
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That is hard to do. My poor DH I swear you can count on fingers how many times we have DTD this whole pregnancy. In the beginning, it was because of being scared of loosing the baby. In the middle, I was out of state. In the end, DH is freaked out about upsetting the baby. Yeah, it is weird feeling baby kick up a storm after DTD, but I still wouldn't mind it now.
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October 3rd, 2011, 11:04 AM
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I give in once a week which I know is hard for DH because we usually DTD several times a week. I'm still terrified everytime we do and I always expect to see blood afterwards although thankfully I don't. I'm wondering if it will get any easier the farther along we get.
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October 3rd, 2011, 11:10 AM
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I am scared of dtd and just haven't been in the mood. I feel sorry for Dh. I try to give in once a week at least. I hope it gets better.
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October 3rd, 2011, 11:50 AM
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Now I feel like the evil wife! 1 time a week seems unbearable!
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October 3rd, 2011, 12:31 PM
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I give in once a week which I know is hard for DH because we usually DTD several times a week. I'm still terrified everytime we do and I always expect to see blood afterwards although thankfully I don't. I'm wondering if it will get any easier the farther along we get.
It does get easier- in fact second trimester is actually the more satisfying time for the woman. In fact some women get extra horny during the 2nd because of the increased blood flow.
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October 3rd, 2011, 01:00 PM
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I wish my hubby would give it to me once a week! That is probably the reason we are not pregnant yet. Try 3 times a month IF I am lucky. That is mainly only during our fertile time too.
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October 3rd, 2011, 01:12 PM
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At first I was scared to DTD but I have been on pelvic rest since 5 weeks so poor DH doesn't get any of that,LOL. I will give into oral maybe twice a month, today is our anniversary so I'm going to try to spice things up as much as I can tonight
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October 3rd, 2011, 01:58 PM
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I was also scared to DTD at first, but now I go for it, even though I always get a ton of BH contractions right after.
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October 3rd, 2011, 02:45 PM
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I DTD maybe twice the whole pregnancy lol. Between bed rest and spotting it just wasn't to be had. When we finally could it was so uncomfortable and made me contract for 6 hours for nothing. Hopefully in nov things will pick up for me.
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October 3rd, 2011, 05:28 PM
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I will be on bedrest until at least 16 weeks according to my OB. So poor DH lol. Glad you everything is going okay though
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October 3rd, 2011, 05:39 PM
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It's so hard not to be scared about that Hubby has been more scared then me though and I'm starting to get fed up!! LOL
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October 3rd, 2011, 06:16 PM
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Now I feel like the evil wife! 1 time a week seems unbearable!
Then I must be the worst wife ever. We don't DTD at all when I'm pregnant. We never have.
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October 3rd, 2011, 10:57 PM
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We like never did it the first trimester maybe once or twice. Even still (in the third) I get a little nervous until i feel some kicks
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October 4th, 2011, 08:28 AM
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We tried for the first time last night but my body just was not having it and it was hurting to be touched.... wonder if the progestrone is effecting that? I told him to get the preseed out and he said he would rather just go to bed because he hates that stuff.
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October 4th, 2011, 08:34 AM
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Except for me being tired and falling asleep at 8:00 on most nights, our schedule really hasn't been affected at all. I don't get morning sickness, sore boobs or spotting (after sex), so I guess I am lucky.

I didn't even get spotting after the pap smear even though it felt like she was digging for buried treasure. Not pleasant.
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October 4th, 2011, 02:06 PM
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wow all of you are nice.. My DH barely got it while I was pregnant, and since I have had the baby he still has not yet got it.. Poor guy... No actually poor me.. LOL
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