Log In Sign Up

Update


Forum: Pregnancy and Motherhood After Loss

Notices

Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To Pregnancy and Motherhood After Loss LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
  #1  
October 26th, 2011, 08:38 AM
TheOtherMichelle's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 8,765
I posted a few weeks ago but my work schedule has been crazy so I haven't had much time to just relax.

I went to my 5 week appointment and the doctor was very reassuring. He scheduled me for an ultrasound next week when I will be 7 weeks so we can check for a heartbeat. I'm still scared but more hopeful. I have been getting very nauseous, although no vomiting yet. I'm giving it another week or two.

We told dd, and I hope it wasn't a mistake. She dealt with the first loss really well but it was still hard on her. We felt like we should tell her though because the other day she was on the couch with me and close to kicking my belly, and with me not feeling well it's easier having her know so she understands why I am sick. She's such a sweetheart and I want her to be a big sister so bad. A day or two ago she told me that she was afraid of hurting the baby and making me sad, and she's also very cautious about how she snuggles up to me. So on one hand I'm glad I told her so I don't have to snap at her because she's jabbing me in the breast or belly (because it hurrrts! lol) but on the other hand I don't want to make her worry.

ETA: how did you deal with your older children?
__________________







Reply With Quote
  #2  
October 26th, 2011, 09:25 AM
melissalaw's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Tennessee
Posts: 14,105
Glad your dr. was so reassuring. that helps in preg after loss. Looking foward to seeing your update on your u/s appointment.

We told DS but he is only 2 so i don't he really understands that come next May he will have a brother or sister.
__________________

Thank you *Kiliki* for my beautiful siggy
Reply With Quote
  #3  
October 26th, 2011, 09:39 AM
Shadeauxe's Avatar It's me
Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Massachusetts
Posts: 5,704
I haven't told my son yet. I might wait until after my 18 week ultrasound. I haven't decided. At this point, I might as well.
__________________
Reply With Quote
  #4  
October 26th, 2011, 06:54 PM
JessP's Avatar Lovin life and family
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Washington
Posts: 22,034
Send a message via MSN to JessP Send a message via Yahoo to JessP
Glad the dr was reassuring. We told the kids at like 8 weeks. We always tell the kids because I can't pick them up, and need them to be careful. They did well. They know our other two are in heaven and they are ok. I have later losses so it becomes hard to hide. Do what feels right for you.
__________________

Thanks .:Shortcake:. for my great siggie
http://skinny-jessi.blogspot.com/


Reply With Quote
  #5  
October 26th, 2011, 06:56 PM
missy123's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Savannah GA
Posts: 13,417
As my children are young adults we pretty much told them right away each time. It would be hard to hide it from them.
__________________

Pregnancy Loss April 2009, September 2010
CP 10/2008, 1/3/11 {missing my babies every single day}Mommy to 4 Children - 3 boys ages 22, 21 and 18 & baby Scarlett
After 2.5 years TTC with 4 losses our Family was given the gift of Miss Scarlett
.
Do not ever give up hope...


Miss Scarlett... Our miracle girl still brings happy tears to my eyes.



Reply With Quote
  #6  
October 31st, 2011, 11:12 PM
TheOtherMichelle's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 8,765
Thanks, it's reassuring to know that we aren't doing irreparable harm to our daughter by telling her (should we have another loss). Or maybe we are, but at least we aren't the only ones.

She IS really excited and it's nice to have her know so when I tell her that the baby is making my stomach upset, she understands for the most part.

Ultrasound in two more days. Very excited and nervous. The good news is, as I'm progressing I've noticed that I am much more nauseous this time around compared the the last pregnancy. I want to say it's even a little more severe than it was with my daughter considering I'm just a couple of days shy of 7 weeks.
__________________







Reply With Quote
Reply

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 03:09 PM.



Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0