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October 28th, 2011, 08:04 AM
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Hi ladies, my name is Cary. I had a loss back in April '08 and went on to have my beautiful DD Reagan, DH and I decided at the beginning of the year (like March time frame) to NTNP and to my surprise we ended up pg within a couple of months, unfortunately, that ended in another loss in August right before I was to be 12 weeks and after seeing that everything looked great.

Anyways, after I got AF, I went against the doctor's advice to wait 2 cycles and we TTC after that first cycle. Well, here I am pg after one cycle, I was shocked! I am so excited, but so extremely scared. I seem to have the same symptoms as I did with the loss in August, which of course is freaking me out. According to LMP I am due June 23, but I know I O'd later around Oct 4/5 and am guessing an EDD of June 27-29. My first appt is November 14, which puts me between 7 and 8 weeks somewhere.

Today the nausea started, so I am really holding on to that as a glimmer of hope Each symptom, no matter how horrible is a blessing to me and I am keeping that in mind as a sign for the better!

Thanks for listening, sorry that got a little winded
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October 28th, 2011, 08:14 AM
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Hello! My name is Kayla I have had 3 consecutive losses and no live children yet. This pregnancy looks good so far but I probably won't relax until 12 weeks. Haha

The ladies here are awesome and we all understand all the fear and anxiety that goes into being pregnant after a loss. So if you have questions or concerns or anything don't be shy
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October 28th, 2011, 08:18 AM
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Hi Cary!!!! I'm so happy for you!! Congrats and Welcome!!!
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October 28th, 2011, 08:25 AM
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Welcome to the board. The ladies here are wonderful.
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October 28th, 2011, 09:16 AM
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Cary I'm so glad you found your way over here... the ladies here really are great! It's so amazing to have a place to go to talk to others that understand all the extra fears that come with PAL...

Welcome!
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October 28th, 2011, 11:03 AM
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Thanks, ladies! I am glad I found it too! I think I saw it in someones siggy

DH doesn't understand why I freak out, I warned him some time ago that I would be a wreck the entire time, I know I will calm a little once I see ignuts (don't ask) and a little more after each appt, but the bad dreams just knock me back a step. Not that I believe in them, but it's hard to ignore sometimes KWIM
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October 28th, 2011, 11:08 AM
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Yeah the dreams are the worst... I've been doing okay with the fear, but it seems to be manifesting itself in bad dreams most nights. I'd really love for them to stop. I'm hoping they stop here at some point when I start to believe that my little cootie is gonna stick around...
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October 28th, 2011, 11:22 AM
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Congratulations and Welcome. Pregnancy after loss is so hard but the ladies on this forum are so supportive and will help you get through. Again Congratulations, I'm so happy.
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October 28th, 2011, 12:41 PM
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Hi Cary! June 27 is a great day to have a baby - my middle son was born on that day. Welcome to PAL.
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October 28th, 2011, 01:21 PM
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So sorry for your losses, congrats on your BFP and welcome!
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October 28th, 2011, 06:45 PM
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Welcome here and congratulations!!!!

We all get it. Pregnancy after loss is difficult, but amazing. I lost my first. Very dark time in my life. When I conceived my daughter, I panicked over almost every little thing. That's all normal. We can never be blissfully pregnant anymore, but we can still love our babies.
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October 29th, 2011, 06:54 AM
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I'm so sorry for your losses. PAL can be so hard, but these ladies are amazing! I wish you a happy, healthy, and uneventful 9 months!
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October 29th, 2011, 11:59 AM
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I am sorry for your losses

welcome to the group and congrats! I hope you have a very H&H 9 months *hugs*
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October 29th, 2011, 12:12 PM
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Welcome. So sorry for your losses. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy.
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October 29th, 2011, 01:26 PM
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Welcome to the board! The fears and worries are so hard to deal with, but the ladies on this board really understand
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