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The closer my angelversary gets the more nervous I am getting. DF doesn't understand, I've had a few people (some that don't even know our past) predict I am going to go into labor Nov 9, I know that baby will come when he/she wants but is it wrong of me to just want this day for the angel. I am super worried about it.
Of course it's not wrong to want that. Unfortunately, it's not really something you can control. I know it's easier said than done to say that there's no sense worrying about something until it happens, but that's what I would try to do.
It's hard. As my edd for my angles approached (both in August) it was mixed emotions. I wanted them to not come because those days were for my angels but I kinda wanted them to come so I could have something to celebrate that day. I wouldn't let it stress you. Or try not to .
Lucia was born on the one year anniversary of one of my losses. I was worried that it would bother me, but it actually made me feel at peace once she was here. I feel like my lost baby (and the other that I lost in January) is a part of Lucia. She wouldn't be here without them.