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  #1  
November 2nd, 2011, 12:44 PM
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Well, I am out. This baby is not a keeper. I am sad, but I'm ok. My milk was starting to dry up and I am not ready for that. I think I will start the mini pill until Pete is 1-2 years old. I honestly don't know if I can handle many more losses. I had 10 before my son and it was HARD! I am ok with one child....

I still feel a little hopeless though. This is my 2nd loss since Peter has been born (Which brings me to 12, 13 if you count Pete's twin) It just goes to show that Peter really is a little miracle! I don't want to spend his childhood being sad about not having more kids. I want to treasure every moment I have with him. Maybe we'll adopt in a few years!
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November 2nd, 2011, 12:53 PM
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So sorry You are very strong to be able to have such a positive outlook. You're little miracle Peter is so adorable!
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November 2nd, 2011, 12:57 PM
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I'm so sorry!
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November 2nd, 2011, 01:02 PM
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I am so so so sorry. You will be in my prayers.
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November 2nd, 2011, 01:07 PM
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I'm so sorry Erica!! Will be thinking of you!
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November 2nd, 2011, 01:09 PM
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Ugh! I'm so sorry Erica that little boy of yours is truly a miracle <3 and he is too cute for words
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November 2nd, 2011, 01:21 PM
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so sorry x x
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November 2nd, 2011, 01:43 PM
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I am so sorry about your loss. Thinking of you.
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November 2nd, 2011, 01:46 PM
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I am so sorry, Did not realize you alread had a loss since Peter.... and yes he is a true miracle. I have starting thinking the same about my daughter because all these things wrong with me they keep finding she should not be here as easy as she was.
I love your outlook.
I am done having kids with this pregnancy if I bring a baby home or not I am done. I have been a horrible mommy to my little girl and a bad wife because I am just so cranky all the time from the stress. Before I had my opps and got pregnant in 2010 I was just happy with one child and things were great.
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November 2nd, 2011, 01:57 PM
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I am so sorry Erica! I love your outlook though. Thinking of you.
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November 2nd, 2011, 02:06 PM
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Erica, I am so sorry . I am so sad.
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November 2nd, 2011, 02:29 PM
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I am soo sorry!! I love your outlook!! You are a very very strong person!!!! Thinking about you! <3
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November 2nd, 2011, 03:00 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss
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November 2nd, 2011, 03:32 PM
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November 2nd, 2011, 04:03 PM
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Erica I am so so sorry!
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November 2nd, 2011, 04:12 PM
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I am so sorry.
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November 2nd, 2011, 04:15 PM
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Aww sweetie.. I'm so sorry..

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November 2nd, 2011, 04:29 PM
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So sorry!
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November 2nd, 2011, 04:37 PM
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I am so saddened to hear this. I hope that being on BC helps with having less stress.
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November 2nd, 2011, 04:45 PM
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Erica I am so sorry! It's not fair. Peter is a miracle baby but I'm still so sad for you.
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