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  #1  
November 2nd, 2011, 05:48 PM
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Sorry ladies, I need a little support today. I am so sad. My parents are moving tomorrow. They go from being 2 hours away from me to being 22 hours away. I am not scared to take care of Marsi by myself. I just already miss them so much. It doesn't help that I am also suffering from PPD and had to get on medications. DH is unemployed as of today so it is a sweet tender mercy that I have him home while I deal with these issues. We are hoping to have him employed by Christmas. Today is just really hard because of my parents moving so far away.
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November 2nd, 2011, 05:51 PM
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((HUGS)) I'm sorry you are feeling so down, PPD can be very hard. I understand how sad it can be to have family move away, I hope you are able to see them as often as possible.
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November 2nd, 2011, 05:52 PM
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I am so sorry Rachel. I know things have been hard for the past couple weeks and I know that having your parents move is an additional stress. You are in my thoughts. I am sending virtual hugs!! And lots of them.
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November 2nd, 2011, 05:57 PM
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Aw Rachel I am so sorry. I lived away from my family for 6 years and hated every single year of it. It hit me even harder when my grandmother passed. I took care of her while I was home and she was more of a mother to me than my own mother. I did not take it well and I still have issues bringing it up. I was so happy when I moved closer to home. Granted it was not home, but at least 2 1/2 hours from it.

Take it easy and relax, and just know that PD depression is actually quite common. You are not crazy for feeling the way that you do. You just have an off balance of hormones right now. You are completely normal. Just know that a lot of us ladies are here to vent to if you need it.

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November 2nd, 2011, 05:58 PM
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I can't imagine being far away from my parent so I understand that has to be really hard hun especially with a new baby. We are here for you.
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November 2nd, 2011, 06:28 PM
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November 2nd, 2011, 08:47 PM
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Sounds like you have so much going on all at once Rachel. ((hugs)) Parents moving, new baby, DH out of work... Phew That is all enough to send one spiraling. I hope the meds help and you are ok. Don't be afraid to post here.
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November 2nd, 2011, 09:44 PM
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November 2nd, 2011, 09:48 PM
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I am so sorry. That's alot of change all at once. We are always here if you need us. PPD isn't easy. I have always gotten it. If you need to talk pm me anytime. Big Hugs!
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November 2nd, 2011, 09:48 PM
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Thank you SO much ladies. Just like another lady said here, the worry does not go away once the baby is here. My love for this little girl is amazing and my mommy instinct is so protective! I do know that all of the thoughts and prayers on my behalf are working wonders. I was so scared to be without my mom tonight, but I was able to give her a bath, feed her and put her to bed just like I have done the last few days with my mom's help. Routines are being set up. Thanks for being here ladies!!
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November 2nd, 2011, 09:50 PM
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wow 22 hrs away is quite far! I am sorry.
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November 3rd, 2011, 08:14 AM
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Thinking of you and sending you lots of hugs. Having your parents move away has to be hard.
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November 3rd, 2011, 08:29 AM
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Sorry.

I hope you feel better.
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November 3rd, 2011, 09:26 AM
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Im so sorry. My parents live 2 hours away and I feel like that is very far I cant imagine 22 hours.
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November 3rd, 2011, 11:15 AM
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I'm so sorry It can be hard and scary to be alone without your family. I'm glad that you are looking for support here- we are here for you!
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November 3rd, 2011, 01:05 PM
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I am so sorry that you are having difficult time. It is very difficult living very far from your parents. Hopefully they can come and visit often. I hope the PPD gets better for you.
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