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  #1  
January 3rd, 2012, 07:21 PM
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how long did it take you to get pregnant after your loss?
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January 3rd, 2012, 08:00 PM
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We took some breaks for healing and testing purposes, but I got pregnant the first cycle trying after all four of my losses.
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January 3rd, 2012, 08:42 PM
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I too didn't have trouble getting pregnant after losses, it was the staying pregnant part. We got pregnant every cycle we tried.
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January 4th, 2012, 04:42 AM
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My very first pregnancy, I got pregnant the 1st or second month (I can't remember exactly. We just stopped preventing and it happened pretty quick). I lost that baby at 12 weeks. We immediately started trying again and it took me 11 months to get pregnant again. This is when I had my rainbow baby. I'm now pregnant again and got pregnant the very first month of not preventing. I'm now 29 and a half weeks pregnant.

It is a big rollercoaster ride! I would suggest you try not to obsess over it. I've heard of so many women who relax, enjoy the processes and suddenly they get pregnant. Of course it is different for everyone. Best of luck to you on your TTC journey!
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January 4th, 2012, 04:53 AM
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After my first loss it took 10 months, but that was a chemical. Then after my chemical it took me 2 months to get this pregnancy on my first cycle on soy. Before my loss, it took 2 1/2 years to get pregnant.
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January 4th, 2012, 05:15 AM
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Didn't you have trouble getting pregnant with Napoleon? Maybe you should go see an OB and see what they say? Good luck Nunie. I'm praying for you!!
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January 4th, 2012, 05:18 AM
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It took us 5 cycles, good luck on your journey.
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January 4th, 2012, 05:48 AM
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My 1st loss was Nov 2010. The doctor told us to wait three months before trying. We waited the 3 months, tried for a month or two, and then stopped trying for a few months. We got pregnant the 1st time we started trying again. I lost that baby early September 2011. That doctor said we could try again right away. We waited one month and then got pregnant 1st try.

If you're having trouble, I would talk to your doctor to see about what kind of testing they'll do for you.
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January 4th, 2012, 06:05 AM
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After my first one I was told to wait 6 months and I did. I got pregnant on the first try. She ended up being my rainbow baby and just turned 4

Got pregnant again 2.5 years later, lost that one in the 8th week.
Pregnant again 2 cycles later, lost that one in the 8th week
Got pregnant that same cycle, lost that one due to ectopic
Got pregnant 3 cycles later (had to wait due to the chemo shot for the ectopic) used soy and here I am almost 22 weeks along.

So the longest it took me was 3 months. DR was amazed by this because I have PCOS.
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January 4th, 2012, 06:24 AM
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We got pregnant on our 3rd cycle of trying (though we were NTNP for a cycle before that), and that ended in a loss. I immediately had a chemical pregnancy. And then I immediately got pregnant with this one.

We clearly don't have issues getting pregnant. My issues had to do with LPD and poor uterine lining, so hoping this pregnancy will be for the long haul.
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January 4th, 2012, 06:27 AM
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First loss it took three months, lost that one took another 3 months which was also a loss. After that it took 4 months and MA.
2nd time around- Got pregnant after 2 months of trying, loss. Got pregnant again immediately- loss at 11 weeks. Back to MA, and it took 6 months- which was a loss. Then 4 months and got my sticky lil girl.
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January 4th, 2012, 06:33 AM
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It took us anywhere from one month to six months after each loss. We had four losses and the last time we got pregnant with our rainbow baby after just one cycle. So who knows? If you have had trouble getting pregnant I would see a specialist....
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January 4th, 2012, 06:38 AM
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Before my loss, it took me a year to get pregnant. After my loss, it took me only 3 months!
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January 4th, 2012, 07:01 AM
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January 4th, 2012, 07:32 AM
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It has varied for me each time
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January 4th, 2012, 07:35 AM
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a yr. it might have been sooner, but i was scared to do anything like that with bf again for the fear of getting pregnant and losing the baby.
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January 4th, 2012, 07:35 AM
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It took us 6 months. I know that doesn't sound like a long time..........but at the time, it seemed like it would never happen. I was really starting to freak out!!! But it happened and our Rainbow will be here next week!! After every storm, there is a rainbow.
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January 4th, 2012, 07:53 AM
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I got very lucky and got pregnant before my first normal af after my loss.
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January 4th, 2012, 07:59 AM
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We took a 2 month break and then it took only 2 months. With this one we been trying for a year.
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January 4th, 2012, 09:21 AM
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I got pregnant on the second cycle after my 2nd trimester loss. We weren't planning on trying that soon but it happened. Getting pregnant is not an issue for me at all though
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