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February 5th, 2012, 05:39 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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CaringBridge / Noah Darrohn / Welcome
If anyone would like to "meet" Noah I would love for you to see him. Sharing his pictures helps me deal with this all. He was sooo perfect I don't want to forget him.
Noah was born at 16 weeks. He was 6 1/2 inches and 3.5oz. I had him vaginally after a fairly quick induction. My water broke on it's own about two hours before he was born. After he was born I developed an infection in the placenta and the did an emergency d&c that ended up being 2 hrs of surgery  I am still trying to recover from effects of that but overall doing pretty good. My milk started coming in today. I am hoping to restart Daniel. It's been 4 weeks since he weaned. He wasn't ready and neither was I but it was the right thing to do at the time.
I was 100% sure we were not going to try again. Now I feel empty and am unsure. Dave doesn't even want to talk about it. Maybe in time he will I don't think I can be done like this. I feel like my baby days are not done yet. I can't "end" like this. If they can come up with a plan to hopefully fix whatever goes wrong with me... I want to consider it. (My first loss was almost identical to this at 14 weeks)
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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February 5th, 2012, 05:58 PM
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Hopes To Be A Mommy
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I teared up looking at those pictures. I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby boy. He is such a sweet angel. I can't even imagine what your going through and all I know to say is I'm extremely sorry.
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February 5th, 2012, 05:59 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm SO sorry for your loss. Your son is a cutie. I will keep you and your family in my T+P's. HUGS!!
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February 5th, 2012, 06:27 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Noah is beautiful. I am so sorry for your loss and everything you are going through.
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February 5th, 2012, 06:36 PM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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i am so sorry Bobbie...he is beautiful, and thank you for sharing the pictures with us. i wish everything had ended differently for you & Noah
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February 5th, 2012, 06:44 PM
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What a handsome and perfect baby boy. I am so very sorry for everything you have been through. And I hope, whichever way you decide to go, you find peace. Noah will watch over you.
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February 5th, 2012, 08:23 PM
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My heart goes out to you,I can't even begin to imagine the pain you must be suffering through and how difficult it must have been to do this.
Maybe after awhile and healing, you may feel different about trying again - but best of luck to you with your recovery.
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February 6th, 2012, 04:46 AM
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He was a beautiful baby boy. I am so sorry for the loss of your little one.
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February 6th, 2012, 05:35 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. He's perfect. ((hugs))
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February 6th, 2012, 05:41 AM
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I am so sorry, he is beautiful...
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February 6th, 2012, 07:08 AM
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He is beautiful. Noah is a wonderful name and also what I named my angel. I think that taking some time to decide what you and him both want is what you will need to get on the same page. 
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February 6th, 2012, 07:35 AM
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Noah is beautiful. I am so sorry you have to go through this again.
Thank you for posting, I been waiting all week for an update from you. You know that we are here for you, a shoulder to lean on, whatever you need.
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February 6th, 2012, 07:40 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so very sorry about Noah. I'm glad you got to take pictures. I hope they help you. I also hope they can find what's wrong and you will be able to have your rainbow baby. I'm so sorry. Noah was beautiful!!
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February 6th, 2012, 08:08 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry. He is beautiful. Keeping you in my thoughts.
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February 6th, 2012, 08:10 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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February 6th, 2012, 08:50 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh Bobbie, I am so sorry about your little boy. Give yourself some time before you decide on what to do next. Time will tell all. God bless you and your family!
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February 6th, 2012, 08:57 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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February 6th, 2012, 09:32 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Bobbie, Noah is beautiful and I hope that time will help you find peace through this. I am glad to hear that you are doing okay, I hope that whatever you and Dave decide will also bring you peace. I am so sorry for your loss and hope you can get some answers!
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February 8th, 2012, 12:37 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry! I lost our baby boy at 16 weeks last year as well. Everything happened at home and we did not get any pictures. I wish we had:-( We really wanted to cremate him, but they said you can't until 20 weeks, so we had him burried.
Lots of hugs!!!
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February 8th, 2012, 01:12 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Bobbie - He is so beautiful and I am sitting here crying for you. My heart aches and I will go light a candle for him. Much love to you and we are here for you.
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