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  #1  
February 29th, 2012, 05:08 AM
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I am scared to death. Yesterday was exactly how far I was when I lost my angel 5 weeks 6 days and i spotted, but I had sex the day prior and it was very light and pink, which happened when we did the deed on Thursday of last week. Spotting is gone now. I go in 3 hours for an ultrasound to see if we see baby and heartbeat....I can't stop shaking and I am on the verge of tears. I know it's still early but I am so scared we wont see baby again and ill be back to trying after a loss, which I don't know if i can do. Just had to get it off my chest, sorry.

Update: Only sac ad yolk is in the uterus, no fetal pole. Seems to be another blighted ovum, my husband wont even talk to me...I feel completely alone right now, I cant stop crying...go back in a week if I don't start miscarrying before
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February 29th, 2012, 06:04 AM
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Good Luck. Praying for a heartbeat. Let us know how it goes.
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February 29th, 2012, 07:09 AM
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Good luck! I hope you get to see a beautiful heartbeat!
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February 29th, 2012, 07:10 AM
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Good luck. Will keep you in my thoughts today.
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February 29th, 2012, 07:23 AM
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Sending lots of thoughts & prayers your way that you see a healthy baby. Please update us when you can!
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February 29th, 2012, 08:09 AM
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Good luck, I will be thinking of you.
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February 29th, 2012, 09:36 AM
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I am so sorry. I am also sorry that your hubby will not talk to you. Men hurt in their own way, but they can be hurtful to the women in the process.

I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better, but I know I cannot. Nothing made me feel better after my losses. I was sad, angry, misreble, and severely depressed. I will have you in my prayers though.
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February 29th, 2012, 09:54 AM
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I am so, so sorry. Especially since your DH is grieving in a way that makes you feel so alone. We are all here for you. Keeping you close in my prayers.
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February 29th, 2012, 10:08 AM
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I'm so sorry....I'm sorry that your dh won't talk to you, men grief differently but he should know that you need him. We are all here for you.
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February 29th, 2012, 10:34 AM
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I'm sorry your husband is making it more difficult for you by pulling away like he is.

Is it possible your dates are off at all?
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February 29th, 2012, 10:39 AM
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I am so very sorry It's just not fair!! I'm sorry your husband isn't speaking to you. They grieve differently and he may be trying to come to terms with things or trying to stay strong and not realize that it's hurting you in the process. We are here for you hun.
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February 29th, 2012, 11:00 AM
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I'm sorry your husband is making it more difficult for you by pulling away like he is.

Is it possible your dates are off at all?
It is possible that my dates are off. I didn't chart just went by cm and position, but i didnt check everyday. Dr says im due october 25th, which would make me 5weeks 6 days which ive read a lot that it can be to early. With with pregnancy at 4 1/2weeks your supposed to see a gestational sac we didnt, 5 weeks we saw gestational sac but no yold, today we saw a nice big yolk sac. I am asking dr to send me for u/s next week around 7 ish weeks. No spotting, no cramping
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February 29th, 2012, 11:07 AM
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I'm so sorry that your husband won't talk to you. I know they grieve in their own ways. My husband never would talk about our loss. I'll be praying for you and hoping that next week at your u/s you get some good news.
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February 29th, 2012, 11:47 AM
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I'm so sorry. I hope you that you can continue growing a lovely healthy bean.
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February 29th, 2012, 12:24 PM
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Dr thinks I might be earlier than I think I am. We go back March 8th for the next u/s praying for a baby and heartbeat then
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February 29th, 2012, 01:02 PM
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I hope your earlier than you think. I'll keep you and baby in my prayers.
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February 29th, 2012, 02:10 PM
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I hope you are earlier then you think. Thinking of you.
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February 29th, 2012, 02:37 PM
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I hope you are earlier than you think. Also hope your DH comes around soon to be there for you.
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February 29th, 2012, 03:12 PM
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Hoping you're earlier than you originally thought and that next week you see a nice strong heartbeat!
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February 29th, 2012, 03:40 PM
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Hoping that you will have a great next ultrasound!
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