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March 8th, 2012, 04:39 PM
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Tomorrow is the 1 year anniversary of Martha passing away. For those that don't know, Martha was my step mother-in-law whom I completely adored. She was my friend and I loved her so much. She was there for me through all my losses and would encourage me to keep trying saying she just knew god would send his angels down and bless us with a child. 3 days after (on the 12th) I got my BFP.

She would have loved up on this little girl so much... ok enough of my crying.












Doesn't Red's little nephew look just like him? I swear they look like father and son. It is his sisters oldest son.

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March 8th, 2012, 04:49 PM
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I remember like it was yesterday Missy. Such a tragedy, and then such a miracle that she managed to send you Scarlett just days later! The two of them were in Heaven plotting together...that's my guess! Love you girl....hugs to you!
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March 8th, 2012, 04:51 PM
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I'm sorry about your lost......She sounds like she was a very special lady in your life. BIG HUGS
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March 8th, 2012, 05:06 PM
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Thanks girls... I know I should not be sad and she is with her husband. She was so depressed after Merrill died and it was so ironic that she died 1year and 1day after.

I was just reading facebook and Red had written this on her wall a few days after Scarlett was born. Thanks for reading all this. It is a lot harder than I thought it would be.
From Red:

I love you and miss you much my Martha! I wish you could meet little Scarlett. We found out about her the weekend you passed away and have always felt that the reason we were able to have her after all the miscarraiges was with your help. You are missed greatly....
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March 8th, 2012, 07:06 PM
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I also remember this like yesterday Missy. I know how you feel about losing someone extremely close to you. I still cannot bear to talk about my grandmother. I am sorry that you are still hurting, and I am sorry she went away too soon.
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March 8th, 2012, 07:15 PM
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Oh Missy I remember it so well I know she is looking down over you and Scarlett. She sent you Scarlett to remember her each and every day!
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March 9th, 2012, 06:01 AM
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I rememebr and wow its already been a year?
Im sorry for your loss.
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March 9th, 2012, 06:24 AM
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I remember it like it was yesterday. I can't believe it has been a year already. I know she is looking down and smiling everytime she sees you and Red with Scarlett. Just like my mom is looking down smiling knowing I am carrying her grandchild. Sending you lots of hugs. I know how hard today is going to be for you and Red.
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March 9th, 2012, 06:44 AM
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Aw, sorry Missy *hugs*
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March 9th, 2012, 07:26 AM
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Big Hugs Missy!!!!!
She would be so proud of you watching you with Scarlett!
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March 9th, 2012, 09:01 AM
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Wow, I remember it well too. I can't believe it has been a year.

I know you are remembering the good times with her today and missing her like crazy. She would be so happy to see you with little Scarlett. And the beauty is that she probably got to meet her in heaven. There is poetic justice in the timing and I bet she had a hand in sending you your perfect angel.

Sending big hugs to your and your family today.
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March 9th, 2012, 09:29 AM
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I remember like it was yesterday too. I can't believe it's been a year already. I knew the second you told us about your BFP with Scarlett that she would be your rainbow baby, because Martha would make sure she got here safe. I'm so sorry she isn't here to love on Scarlett.
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March 9th, 2012, 12:14 PM
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Thank you girls so much!! This thread also made me realize just how long we have all been "family" here on JM. I like that.

I like all of you and am glad we are all together!
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March 9th, 2012, 01:10 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss, Missy! I am sure she is beaming down on you all! HUGS on such a hard day!
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March 9th, 2012, 07:25 PM
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I remember like it was yesterday too. I can't believe it's been a year already. I knew the second you told us about your BFP with Scarlett that she would be your rainbow baby, because Martha would make sure she got here safe. I'm so sorry she isn't here to love on Scarlett.

Ditto all of this. I can't believe it has been a year either. That is really sweet what your husband wrote on her FB. *hugs* I am sorry she can't be here to enjoy Scarlett.
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