Log In Sign Up

New pregnancy, hopeful but terrified.


Forum: Pregnancy and Motherhood After Loss

Notices

Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Like Tree1Likes
  • 1 Post By caitea

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To Pregnancy and Motherhood After Loss LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
  #1  
March 8th, 2012, 06:43 PM
caitea's Avatar Bun in the oven
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Lady Lake, FL
Posts: 44
I had to induce a missed miscarriage on Nov 24th, 2011 and now I'm pregnant again. I just got the positive result tonight, but I'm already terrified. My fiance and I want this so desperately, though our wedding date is May 26th and this might make fitting into my dress a little difficult. I'm just so scared that history will repeat itself and we will lose this pregnancy. I know, though, that one miscarriage doesn't mean you're doomed to a string of lose pregnancies, but it's still incredibly scary. Any advice or words of wisdom?
Reply With Quote
  #2  
March 8th, 2012, 06:49 PM
Belita's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Nov 2011
Posts: 12,105
I don't have any advice, but you're not alone. I had a miscarriage in December and just got my BFP last night. I'd say I'm so scared I'm ****ting bricks, but I'm too afraid to do a #2! I'm just trying to relax and take it one day at a time. Heck, today at times it was just taking it one hour at a time. I hope this is a rainbow for both of us!

And your wedding date is my sister's birthday! Congrats on your upcoming wedding!
__________________

Reply With Quote
  #3  
March 8th, 2012, 07:54 PM
caitea's Avatar Bun in the oven
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Lady Lake, FL
Posts: 44
Thanks!!! And on that day, pass on a big old happy birthday to your sister for me! Well, since we're in the same boat, maybe we can be bump buddies!
Belita likes this.
Reply With Quote
  #4  
March 9th, 2012, 03:02 AM
.:Shortcake:.'s Avatar ♬♪Music Soothes my Soul♪♬
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 17,035
Hello and welcome to the board! Congratulations on your pregnancy As Robyn said PAL is hard and scary. I wish I had something to tell you to make it easier but the best thing you can do is take things one day at a time. Sending lots of sticky dust your way and I really hope this is your rainbow baby!

PS. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding too
__________________

My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11


Want a siggy in a hurry? Check out my Siggy Express Lane
My blog


Reply With Quote
  #5  
March 9th, 2012, 06:00 AM
Hopefulpinkangel's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Jul 2011
Posts: 2,536
Welcome! PAL is really hard, but the end result is very rewarding. Lots of sticky dust!
__________________


Jan 2010 August 2011


Reply With Quote
  #6  
March 9th, 2012, 06:16 AM
*SamF*'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 16,621
Send a message via Yahoo to *SamF*
Welcome to PAL!!

Only thing I can say is to take it day by day. There is no magical answer on how to get through PAL. But it is worth it all in the end!
__________________


Reply With Quote
  #7  
March 9th, 2012, 08:06 AM
ashj_1218's Avatar Hiya!
Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 11,065
Welcome to PAL. I think every single one of us was scared and feeling so unsure at the beginning of our pregnancies. It is so hard to have a loss. It is like always waiting for the other shoe to drop. But everyone here understands what that's like and will be here to help!

Congrats on your BFP and on your upcoming wedding I was 20 weeks pregnant at my wedding and even though I did not look perfect and skinny in my dress, there was a certain beauty about it that I would never change. It has been almost three years and my son knows he was in my belly in my wedding pictures. I love looking at them and thinking back to before I knew him.
__________________
Reply With Quote
  #8  
March 9th, 2012, 01:33 PM
Belita's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Nov 2011
Posts: 12,105
Quote:
Originally Posted by caitea View Post
Thanks!!! And on that day, pass on a big old happy birthday to your sister for me! Well, since we're in the same boat, maybe we can be bump buddies!

Sounds like a plan!!
__________________

Reply With Quote
  #9  
March 9th, 2012, 02:13 PM
Pitridge's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
Posts: 10,074
Welcome and congrats! PAL is very scary, just take one day at the time, try to stay positive, busy (which with a wedding coming soon, I'm bet you are busy).
__________________
Patty











Reply With Quote
Reply

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 04:49 AM.



Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0