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July 13th, 2006, 09:20 PM
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Hi everyone, my Name is Jen.

I am now 18 weeks pregnant, and i am over the moon, but lately i am thinking about a previous pregnancy - although they didnt like to call it that - if it really was that!
I was taken to ER middle of december last year, with pain ful bleeding. The Emergency Gyno sadi that it looked like a chemical pregnancy, where it didnt take

Now that i am out of the danger zone with this pregnancy, i cant help but feel extremely sad and guilty that i didnt greive the loss of that pregnancy, it will be hard come december as i will be in hospital celebratiung life......

Do i have a right to grieve and be sad?
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July 14th, 2006, 08:37 AM
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Of course you do!! A chemical pregnancy IS a m/c in my book. In fact, I HATE the term "chemical pregnancy." Your feelings are really normal. ((HUGS!!))
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July 15th, 2006, 09:06 AM
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Absolutely! I think that we've all grieved for losses at different stages of pregnancy, but in the end, we all understand LOSS. I even think that most of us grieved over our periods every month...a loss of potential for a baby that month.

You grieve. You have every right. Just keep celebrating that little one inside you as well. Enjoy every little kick, flutter, and hiccup. It's crazy how fast it all goes!
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