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May 4th, 2012, 08:20 AM
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I know it's so far away & there are so many hurdles to getting there, but the last couple days all I can think about is how I don't want this baby born on Daniel's day. I don't want to celebrate & feel sorrow on the same day. What if this baby comes that day? I'm so afraid...
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May 4th, 2012, 10:08 AM
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How far is your due date from Daniel's birthday? If you're due before that, maybe you'll go even earlier once the cerclage is out?
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May 4th, 2012, 06:26 PM
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My sweet Scarlett was born on the day my first loss baby was supposed to be born. I thought I would feel that way - the sadness on a day which is supposed to be happy. To be honest though I feel like Scarlett was born that day on purpose to comfort me on what was {for 2 years} an extremely sad day in my life.

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May 4th, 2012, 06:56 PM
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How far is your due date from Daniel's birthday? If you're due before that, maybe you'll go even earlier once the cerclage is out?
I'm due November 17 & Daniel's birthday is November 9... Both my kids came early, so it seems likely this one will too.

Thanks Missy - hearing your story makes me feel better about the possibility. I never thought of it that way
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May 4th, 2012, 07:28 PM
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I was scared of the same thing too. Our first loss was on 04/21 and I was afraid of having Emily on that date. I really wanted to reserve that day for the one we lost....but I can definitly see it from Missy's perspective too.
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