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May 25th, 2012, 07:56 PM
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I know there is really no logical answer for this, but why do things happen? I'd never even heard the word cerclage till I lost Daniel & now I have one and just found out another person had to have an emergency one put in... It just doesn't seem fair I am very thankful it's an option available because if not I'd have no chance of having a successful pregnancy. Just having heard about this person freaks me out because it reminded me how two weeks can make such a tremendous difference in cervical length. I'm just so worried this cerclage isn't going to work for me and I'll lose this baby too Why is this something I have to worry about???? Why ??? I just wish I could have a worry free remainder of this pregnancy!

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May 25th, 2012, 09:03 PM
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I know life truly isn't fair... But think of it this way at least we live in a time where things like that are an option! I mean how far medical things have come are amazing! I know it's scary and I'm hate how we all have to be scared. But my best advice is one day at a time. Celebrate everyday as a mini milestone. That's what I do... Big hugs and sticky dust. Think positive. You have that in place for you to have your perfect rainbow baby.
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May 26th, 2012, 07:03 AM
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I ask myself that question all the time! I'm sorry you have to worry. You should be able to enjoy your pregnancy without worrying. I hate that we all know loss, and the all-consuming worry of PAL. It's not fair. I hope your cerclage works perfectly and you're holding your rainbow baby in your arms very soon. I know several women who had cerclages, made it to their removal date, and then went on to reach or surpass their due date. I hope I can count you among them in a few short months!
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May 26th, 2012, 07:42 AM
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It's so unfair. It is scarier since we have so many women in our DDC who had second and third trimester losses in previous pregnancies. I have great hopes that your cerclage will work perfectly.
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May 26th, 2012, 03:22 PM
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Thanks so much ladies! Just hearing of this other person's situation gave me anxiety - even though i know things are never a certainty, it just brought to mind how quickly things can go from great to terrifying. All I could think of was the anatomy scan with Daniel & how happy I was that day & how quickly that changed to absolutely terrified and then the misery that came later. I have now been listening to the baby's hb every day & that is something I was trying not to do, but if I don't I get worried- I really need to start feeling this baby before I go nutty *SIGH*
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May 26th, 2012, 09:17 PM
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Last night I found that if I lay with my left leg over a pillow and my right hip and part of the right side of my belly against the bed I can feel my boy pretty consistently. Worth a shot for you to try, too!
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May 28th, 2012, 04:25 AM
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It truly sucks that we can't enjoy a pregnancy. I know that for me until I'm holding my baby in my arms I will never be comfortable or safe. The innocence of pregnancy has been taken from us and it's not fair.
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