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July 2nd, 2012, 07:16 AM
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I am just so scared about everything! I have been having an increase in this clear watery discharge & base on what I've read online, it's pretty common especially when you have a cerclage. For the first time EVER Google made me feel a bit better about something, but then I get to thinking, what if I'm wrong and I should be over-analyzing this! What if I get complacent like I did with Daniel, thinking it's "normal" and it isn't... I had an appt scheduled for Thursday for my bi-weekly cervix check, but I gave in to the worry & called the doctor's office to see what they would say... They are having me come in today at 12:45 for an u/s to check things out. I am praying that I'm just a paranoid mess & nothing is wrong. I really just want it to be October so if she decided to come, she'd be ok. I can't take this stress anymore


-UPDATE-

Not so great news. My cervix is down to 1.7... She didn't see funneling, which is a good sign, but the fact that my cervix shrunk from a 3.9 to this in less than two weeks freaks me out! I still have another 3.5 weeks to viability... I am praying this bed rest crap works! I don't know if I could handle losing another healthy baby like this
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July 2nd, 2012, 08:48 AM
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Good luck! I hope everything is ok!!
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July 2nd, 2012, 09:53 AM
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Praying for a good report at the ultrasound today for you.

You're less than a month away from viability! (and some hospitals will try to save babies born at 22/23 weeks, too). After that you can count every day she's in there as one day healthier and stronger.
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July 2nd, 2012, 11:47 AM
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You're in my T&P's. I hope everything turns out ok.
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July 2nd, 2012, 12:38 PM
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Good Luck. Praying that all is well.
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July 2nd, 2012, 01:19 PM
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Thank you for your T&P's... Please keep them coming!
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July 2nd, 2012, 01:42 PM
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July 2nd, 2012, 02:14 PM
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I hope the bed rest helps! I'm glad you trusted your intuition and were seen.
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July 2nd, 2012, 02:57 PM
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Praying!! You are doing all you can, hoping the bed rest keeps that girl baking!
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July 2nd, 2012, 03:44 PM
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Praying for you and your baby girl.
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July 2nd, 2012, 08:02 PM
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Praying for you. Im surprised they dont have you on hospital bed rest at this point. Are you completely bed ridden? Like, not even rest room breaks? I would go all out at this point and even use a bed pan. Thoughts and prayers for you and your little girl. Just a couple of months to go........till she is safer.
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Praying for you. Im surprised they dont have you on hospital bed rest at this point. Are you completely bed ridden? Like, not even rest room breaks? I would go all out at this point and even use a bed pan. Thoughts and prayers for you and your little girl. Just a couple of months to go........till she is safer.
Ditto. Hugs and prayers!
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July 2nd, 2012, 09:53 PM
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July 3rd, 2012, 01:34 AM
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I'm so sorry you're going through this! Praying for a good outcome for you! I agree with the others... I wouldn't take any chances. I'd be using a bedpan and parking myself permanently in bed!
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July 3rd, 2012, 02:48 AM
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Bed rest does work! My cervix had shortened to around 2cm because of BH/preterm labor issues at around 27 weeks. Getting me off my feet significantly helped and it reach almost 3cm again in just a couple of weeks. Now I am almost 40 weeks pregnant and i'm pretty sure they are going to have to induce this kid out! Big hugs!! It will be ok!
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July 3rd, 2012, 06:14 AM
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When do you go back for another check? Sending you prayers. Bedrest does suck but try and remember not to do more than you are allowed. I've known 2 women who made it to 30+ weeks after being told that they may not make it to 24 weeks. Don't look at the long term, keep small milestones. It will make it more doable.

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July 3rd, 2012, 06:42 AM
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Sending tons of T&P your way hun! I agree with the others, stay in bed as much as possible.
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July 3rd, 2012, 08:52 AM
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I agree with the other ladies. Try to stay in bed as much as you can. Lots of thoughts and hugs.
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July 3rd, 2012, 08:56 AM
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Praying for you and your sweet baby!!!
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July 3rd, 2012, 09:41 AM
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You are in my prayers. Just rest and follow all your doctors orders.
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