For Becky...
What most worries you about delivery?
BEFORE: Epidurals always worry me because there are real risks. Having crazy doctors that force you into having a C section for no actual reason. Having a C section because of being induced. Going into labor at work in some excessively dramatic fashion. Having to deliver the baby in a car because of MA traffic. It would end up being the opposite gender of what the bazillion sonograms told me I was having. Pooping during delivery. Obviously, I was very rational.
REALITY: No poop. No C section even though I was induced. Epidural was given at the perfect time (had the baby less than an hour later) and I never had to get a catheter. I did end up having antibiotics for group b strep even though I tested negative because that was how that doctor rolled. It made the uncomfortable test really pointless. Having my water "break" a second time while I was standing up in my L/D room all over my feet/slippers. It was very wet and warm. So gross.
What big items do you still need for baby?
I don't think I needed anything, but I bought plenty of things that I did not need/use at all. Most of it I returned, so it was ok.
Where will baby sleep when they arrive?
BEFORE: In a pack in play in my room until three months then the crib.
REALITY (at almost 4 months): On me (or my husband), in my bed. Totally annoying. It is getting better though, so there is hope.