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  #1  
August 13th, 2012, 12:26 PM
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Just back from u/s - i knew almost from the start it wasn't good news (after a few m/c you get good at reading the u/s tech face). Baby measured a week behind and that beautiful hb is gone, so it's another loss despite the strong hb at 8wk appt.

I have to stop the progesterone & Lovenox & baby aspirin immediately and I'm opting to try naturally but because a week has likely already gone by since growth stopped around 9w4d, OB only wants to give me 2 weeks for m/c to happen on its own and if it hasn't started by next week i have to schedule a D&C for maybe the week after. After levels return to normal I'm going back into RE's care to consider options and potentially test for rarer conditions (i don't even know what these would be, i've already had full battery of RPL testing but apparently there is really rare stuff they can choose to test for).

I am so crushed i almost can't believe its happening again...we were so certain with the perfect hb at 2 different appts that this one would be our miracle and now I truly feel broken...after all this specialized care, all these drugs & injections for it to fail me again is just heartbreaking.
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August 13th, 2012, 12:29 PM
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Lara I am so sorry, I was really hoping for a different outcome for you.
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August 13th, 2012, 12:38 PM
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I am so sorry. I really thought this was your rainbow baby. I hope you can fine some answers.
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August 13th, 2012, 12:58 PM
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Big hugs Lara! I am so sorry, words can not express how sad I am for you. Please take time to heal and if you need anything let me know.
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August 13th, 2012, 01:41 PM
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i am so sorry, i cant even find the words to say how heartbreaking this is. i hope your doing ok and i hope you find the closer you need
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August 13th, 2012, 02:00 PM
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I'm so sorry, Lara! ((Hugs))
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August 13th, 2012, 02:38 PM
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Oh Lara... I'm so very, very sorry. I was so hoping for a different update. My heart is just breaking for you and I can't believe how unfair all of this is. I'll be lighting a candle tonight for you and your precious little bean...
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August 13th, 2012, 03:30 PM
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I am so so terribly sorry about your loss, my thoughts are with you during this difficult time .
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August 13th, 2012, 03:45 PM
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I am so crushed and heartbroken, I really thought this was it for you. I was so sure that things were going to work out. I am so sorry, so sad that this is happening again, it just breaks my heart that you have to go through all this stuff for your rainbow baby.
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August 13th, 2012, 04:23 PM
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My heart is broken for you, Lara. I have no words. I am so, so sorry.
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August 13th, 2012, 04:29 PM
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Oh no. I was really hoping not to see this. I'm crying for you right now. This is completely unfair. I hope they find out what issues you have so you never have to go through this again.
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August 13th, 2012, 05:12 PM
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I am so, so sorry. I was hoping for good news for you. I hope that your RE can help you find some answers. Sending lots of hugs.
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August 13th, 2012, 05:37 PM
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Oh, no! I am so sorry. I don't really have words... I hope you get some answers...
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August 13th, 2012, 06:07 PM
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I'm so sorry hun
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August 13th, 2012, 06:24 PM
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I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I am thinking of you
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August 13th, 2012, 06:49 PM
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Oh Lara, I am so so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. You should not be going through this again Lots of thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
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August 13th, 2012, 07:08 PM
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I cannot express how sorry Iam for this to happen again to you. Im shocked actually. Praying you get some answers. Will you be getting the baby tested this time?
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August 13th, 2012, 09:19 PM
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Oh Lara, I'm at a loss for words. I'm so sorry hun. My heart is breaking for you right now.
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August 14th, 2012, 01:24 AM
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I am so heartbroken for you! I don't even know what to say other than this isn't fair, and I'll be praying for you as you move forward.
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August 14th, 2012, 03:54 AM
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Man, that really sucks. Sorry you have to go through this again. I hope you find some answers quickly.
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