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DH always waffled between wanting 2 and 3. I always said I only wanted 2. Having the two losses in between Josiah and Jamison solidified things for me. I told DH that I absolutely cannot risk the emotional/physical pain of more miscarriages for the sake of a 3rd baby. I also have NO desire to have more than 2 c-sections! He is on board, and totally understands. He is planning to get a vasectomy 6-12 months after Jamison is born, once we are past the risk of SIDS.
__________________ Mommy to two beautiful boys, watched over by two angels in heaven
We are wanting 3 more ( 2 boys 1 girl ) since we have dd who is now 3 months. We are TTC natural (aka NTNP) but I do not like the title NTNP since right before getting pregnant with my daughter last year. (its spiritual related) dh & I hope pregnancy happens a little later for us (like when she turns 1 years old) I am already praying for no more losses as I have had 5 that I know of. (prior to dd) plus I had a C section June 2012 so its best to get pregnant as down the road as possible, ive heard 18 months.......but I say whatever happens happens I just want healthy children. and I would like my daughter to experience having siblings like I go to (just not as many as I had ) as I have 4 younger brothers and 4 younger sisters. All same parents. So anyway one last thing my hubby saids I am a very crabby pregnant lady haha!( I was worried the whole 1st trimester with dd) sorry hubby.
After some of the stupid things I did & thought for about a year after losing Daniel, I thought I was done and would be content with the two I had... then ended up pregnant with this baby and I love her more than life. I would love for her to have a sibling around her age, but with all the medical stuff I have to go through to stay pregnant, I am not sure that I want to/or can go through it all again. I am not 100% sure I am ready to say this is it & go through with a permanent procedure, but I think I'm in the 80% sure I'm done range.
Thank you Katie (.:Shortcake:.) for my beautiful siggy!!
I don't know, I'd love a little girl, but there is no garentee, I love being pregnant and giving birth, but that isn't a good reason to have another kid.
DH wants to be done, but has agreed to revisit the discussion when Lincoln is a year old.
Missing Our Angels gone too soon 6/5/10 (9wks) & 3/1/14 (9wks)
Chemical Pregnancy 5/31/15 Adam Michael 9/22/06 (c-section)~Nathan Joseph 9/4/08 (VBAC)~Lincoln Thomas 9/5/12 (VBAC)
we are most likely done, I'll be 36 in a month, and will BF for at least a year, so most likely, we wouldnt be able to try till I'm 37...the stress of TTC (we needed injectables for Maiya) and the worry of loss are a lot to deal with...but, we arent doing anything permanent either...