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November 13th, 2012, 07:38 PM
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One of our friends is pregnant and just announced it on Facebook.... she is 19 weeks and just now telling people after 2 miscarriages last summer.
Why am I jealous of her???? I also have felt this way about others but worse about her for some reason.

Anyone else felt like this even after they had there rainbow babys??? I never had these feelings before any of my miscarriages and typically someone who has experienced a loss getting pregnant always made me happy.
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November 13th, 2012, 08:04 PM
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Just because we had our rainbows does not take that raw pain away from our loss's. Maybe there is still some raw pain left in you and this triggered it. It has happened to me too, the same way. Maybe its because you did not get to share her journey of getting to 19wks and feel left out?
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November 13th, 2012, 08:13 PM
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I did not just find out she told me at 5 weeks and to keep it a secret. But its like now that its Facebook official it bugs me... weird.
Maybe it will just always bring up raw fellings for me. Dh has also said no more babys and maybe thats getting to me.... I wanted one more.
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November 14th, 2012, 03:37 AM
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Dh has also said no more babys and maybe thats getting to me
My guess would be that. I'm not looking forward to that part. Though, with a 16 and 15 year old, I should be getting grandkids within 10-13 years..
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November 14th, 2012, 05:23 AM
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Just because you have had your rainbow baby it does not make the pain of loosing a baby go away. There is a certain pride and love that goes with being pregnant so i can completely understand why you would feel this way. Sometimes certain things remind us of our loss and no matter how long it has been it still hurts. Im so sorry you have to deal with this. It will get better.
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November 14th, 2012, 10:12 AM
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Sorry you are feeling that way. I'm betting it is mostly because DH doesn't want any more babies. I keep hoping that when Bryson gets a little bit older he will change his mind.
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November 15th, 2012, 10:55 AM
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Sorry you are feeling that way. I'm betting it is mostly because DH doesn't want any more babies. I keep hoping that when Bryson gets a little bit older he will change his mind.
I hope so too.

The other day Bryson was crying and he said "Come January when I get more vacation time im getting the big V done"
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November 15th, 2012, 01:08 PM
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I hope so too.

The other day Bryson was crying and he said "Come January when I get more vacation time im getting the big V done"
Hopefully he will chicken out Lindsey. I know me and my husband have talked bout him getting it done after we have one more kid but I think he will chicken out.
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