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February 13th, 2013, 05:38 AM
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I woke this morning to horrible cramps and started spotting. My heart is broken. Goodbye baby.
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February 13th, 2013, 06:58 AM
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Rachel I am so sorry that you are going through this. Sending you hugs.
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February 13th, 2013, 08:54 AM
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Im not sure how far along you are, but I had horrible, worse than AF cramps with spotting in my 5th week with my most recent baby too! I thought for sure it was over, especially when the hcg did not double properly from 14 to 16dpo. But he's here! I bled off and on pink, red and brown until 10wks and it finally stopped! I had a SCH (possible small 2nd. sac) that caused the cramping and spotting. Praying you will get good news and your little baby will hold on tight. I know how stressfull this is and wish I could make that part better. Lots of prayers to you sweetie.
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February 13th, 2013, 10:01 AM
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I went and got betas drawn today. I will get a second set on Friday to see if the pregnancy is viable. Thank you so much Lori. That makes me feel more hopeful. ugh...I hate the first trimester!
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February 13th, 2013, 10:54 AM
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i am staying hopeful for you too - i have had cramps and a TON of bleeding, clots & all in past week, and was positive this pregnancy was over only to find out it's a bad SCH. Keeping my fingers crossed for your betas & good news (((HUGS)))
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February 13th, 2013, 05:41 PM
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Im so sorry sweetie. Im praying for good beta numbers.
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February 13th, 2013, 06:55 PM
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T&P for good betas and a sticky bean!!!! I wouldn't count yourself out yet by any means. These sorts of things are really common and why a lot of women don't realize they are pregnant until 8+ weeks, they think they had a period but it was just an SCH or something like that. Hugs, it is so nervewracking!
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February 14th, 2013, 01:21 AM
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Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry you are going through this!
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February 14th, 2013, 09:19 AM
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My quant was only 85. It should have been 2000+. I expected it, but it still hurts so badly. I go to the OB on the 25th to make sure that everything has passed. I am starting baby aspirin today and will be getting a progesterone Rx. Thank you for your thoughts ladies. I really wish I could have given you better news.
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February 14th, 2013, 10:20 AM
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Im sorry sweetie. Im praying for fast physical healing and some peace of mind.
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February 14th, 2013, 10:28 AM
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Im so sorry to hear your news. I was praying and hoping so hard for you. The baby asprin and progesterone supplements will hopefully bring your new rainbow baby home. Will you be charting this time around? Please take care of yourself and be extra gentle in the days to come. Im thinking about you.
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February 14th, 2013, 10:41 AM
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February 14th, 2013, 11:11 AM
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I'm so sorry.
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February 14th, 2013, 11:25 AM
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I'm sorry And just wanted to offer some extra hugs for you!
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February 14th, 2013, 11:39 AM
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I always chart. I use FAM for TTA and TTC. It will make it very easy to pinpoint dates for bloodwork this way.
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February 14th, 2013, 12:03 PM
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I am so sorry. I was so hoping that you would get a different result. Please know that I'm thinking of you in this very difficult time. I wish none of us ever had to experience a loss.
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February 14th, 2013, 12:36 PM
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When you start your baby aspirin and progesterone, just make sure it is after ovulation. Aspirin before O can delay the ovulation or even make the egg not "hatch" correctly. I pray that your back again very soon with wonderful news of new little bean. In the mean time, I'm again, very sorry for the loss of this little one.
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February 14th, 2013, 01:51 PM
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I'm so sorry...
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February 14th, 2013, 02:52 PM
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I'm so sad to hear about your loss. I hope your body recovers quickly and that your heart heals as quickly as it can. I know grieving can take its time, so go easy on yourself for awhile...hugs and hope for a rainbow baby in your near future.
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