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Hi Ladies! I hope you all are doing well! Jamison had his first birthday on Oct. 4th, and Josiah turned 5 on September 3rd. Just thought I would pop by and tell you my baffling AF saga. Last month, AF arrived on day 25. I usually have a 24 day cycle, but give or take a day. It started out like normal, but on day 3 of AF, I started bleeding really heavily. I was soaking through super plus tampons every hour, which is NOT normal for me. The heavy bleeding only lasted that one day, with lighter flow on the remaining days. It freaked me out, but since I'm still BF-ing, I thought maybe it was something weird with my hormones. Well, this month my AF was completely normal. Now I am actually wondering if last month was an early miscarriage. It didn't even occur to me that I could be pregnant since we use condoms and AF arrived basically on time, but now I'm just not so sure. I have my annual exam with my OB in two weeks, so I will discuss with her then. It's kind of a strange place to be in, wondering if you lost another LO, but also realizing you'll never know for sure. Just had to share.
__________________ Mommy to two beautiful boys, watched over by two angels in heaven
I'm so sorry. It's terrible to have the "what ifs". In my opinion, the OB will say "there's no way to know" or "that was just a heavy AF" but you could call and ask for a beta from them. In the end, I'd say listen to your heart. I'm sorry you're dealing with this.
How scary and confusing. I had questions like that for my OB years ago after DS was born and even went so far as to have an U/S and Biopsy done because the bleeding WOULDN'T stop. But it was an "unexplained hemorrhage". They found no trace of HCG in my blood and nothing on the U/S or biopsy except a small fibroid, which they said wouldn't cause such a thing. My OB told me that if I never had a positive HPT to not torture myself with what ifs.
I hope you continue to have normal AFs from now on and if you do get to the bottom of the unexplained heavy AF, it's a logical explanation.
__________________ Leia 40 yrs young
Wife to Big Bull 40
Mommy to Big Brother our first Miracle Feb 24 2006
Mommy to Little Brother, our Rainbow, March 24, 2014
Have you tried taking a pregnancy test just to see if there is any residual HCG. I had a strange period like that after jacob was born but mine lasted for about 3 weeks so I wondered also if I had been pregnant. But I just never really thought much about it afterwards.
Thank you *Kiliki* for my beautiful siggy