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So I was feeling pretty horrible last week and the beginning of this week. Yesterday afternoon and today, however, I feel pretty darn good. I'm not complaining that I'm not sick because I hate it so much BUT it makes me really nervous that something is wrong!!! I am 8 weeks tomorrow, it's so strange to me that it was so strong and now it's almost non-existent.
I know it can come and go and I'll have good days and bad days but I just feel so confused and scared.
What the bleep is going on? No spotting, no cramping, just normal (or what I THINK is normal) pulls and pains here and there.
I just called the Dr. because I am so freaked out. The nurse said "Well...it isn't abnormal and normally with a miscarriage there will be spotting or cramping. IF it is a miscarriage just know that there is nothing you could have done to prevent it" Didn't reassure me AT ALL! She offered to get me into the Dr. earlier than my next appt 11/21 but the only appt they have open is tomorrow at 2 and I can't make it. So looks like I'll have to wait until Thursday to find out if my little one is OK.
Sounds normal to me also. I know one day my boobs would be killling me and then the next day nothing. Always freaked me out. I know we all hate morning sickness but it is so reassuring. I hope you are sick again tomorrow.
Thank you *Kiliki* for my beautiful siggy
I seriously think it's normal... My sickness comes and goes alllllll the time. I'm done freaking out about it cause stress can make things worse. I have had a billion people tell me you'll have good and bad days. Sometimes I feel awesome for 3 hours then all of a sudden I'm on the couch. Whenever I think it's "gone" it always comes back. Always!
And the nurse is right... Most miscarriages do have spotting. Yes, you can have a missed miscarriage but those are even more rare. Try to relax mama! I'm in the same boat as you. At this stage there is nothing we can do.
I won't know if my little is still okay till the 26th... So I think your lucky on the 21st hehe.
I'm sure everything is fine Cort. We all have good days and bad days. But I know where you are coming from and I also worry when I have good days. But when I'm having a bad day, all I'm wishing for is a good day. LOL. So, try to enjoy it while it lasts b/c I'm sure it will return. Just try to stay calm and think positive thoughts.
__________________ "Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about learning to dance in the rain." Chad & Lindsey~Furbabies Bella & Oliver 4-29-13