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November 23rd, 2013, 06:24 AM
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So DS has been begging us to "Find a baby to put in mommy's tummy" for years. I don't think he every really understood the implications of his request, until now.

Last night we were snuggling on the couch and he had his hand on my tummy and he felt his baby brother kick. He. Freaked. Out.

It MOVED!!!!! It WIGGLED! EEEEWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!

I asked him if he wanted to feel it again and he said "NO! It makes me sguiggle in my tummy and I feel sick."

He also is a little upset that now he has chores. Gathering eggs from the coop, picking up toys, putting away dishes, putting away clothes, etc. When I explained that these were his responsibilities FOREVER because he has a baby brother now, he looked at my tummy, looked at me, at my tummy again and said "He's gonna live here?"

This is going to take some time to get used to, I fear.
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November 23rd, 2013, 07:36 AM
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Aw, poor guy! though this post made me laugh a little. "He's gonna live here?" lol
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November 23rd, 2013, 12:45 PM
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I chuckled at the same part. Lol. Having siblings is an adjustment for some kids but it doesn't take long for them to mesh well together. It will all work out.
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November 23rd, 2013, 07:31 PM
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Cute! Kids say the funniest things.
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November 23rd, 2013, 08:00 PM
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lol. He sounds like fun! He'll probably have an easier time after he gets to know baby brother. It'll be an adjustment I'm sure, but it'll work out.
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November 24th, 2013, 12:38 PM
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That is too cute and funny
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November 24th, 2013, 06:23 PM
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Yeah I'm sure he'll adjust quickly and be a great big brother. To cute.
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November 25th, 2013, 07:32 AM
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Hilarious!! My 4 year old felt the baby move the other day and it freaked him out as well. Now though he will talk really loudly to my belly trying to wake the baby up. Kids are very funny.

I'm sure once your little guy is born your son will just adore him. I worried how Jackson would behave once Jacob was born but he has done wonderfully so hopefully your little guy will do the same thing. Although now Jackson tells me that he doesn't want another brother he just wants Jacob so I'm hoping his does ok when we bring home the new baby.
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November 25th, 2013, 09:40 AM
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LOL Melissa! Yes, buyers remorse. I'm wondering too if my DS is having a little regret for all the times he's asked for a sibling.
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November 25th, 2013, 09:49 AM
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That is too cute! It will take some adjustment, but I am sure that they will be great friends eventually
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