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January 22nd, 2014, 06:49 AM
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I just wanted to tell everybody on this board how glad I am that we have no drama here. In all the DDC's I've been in there is always some sort of drama. Somebody getting mad or saying something hurtful or stupid but on this board everybody is so wonderful.

I guess when you've been through what we have been through the petty stupid drama is just not worth it.
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January 22nd, 2014, 07:00 AM
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Oh melissa you are so freakin' right. I have been thinking this same darn thing all morning!
I hate the nonsense, and the need to be snippy.
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January 22nd, 2014, 07:53 AM
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Couldn't agree more! Luckily, I have great, understanding ladies in my DDC that I am co-hosting. There has only been 1 bout of drama and it was instigated by a random outsider on circumcision. My Oct11 PR just went though major drama on FB. I am one that steers clear of drama like the plague it is.
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January 22nd, 2014, 08:10 AM
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Yes I find I love this board more than any other! Even though I've got a good DDC I think our smaller size here and the fact we've all got a shared past helps
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January 22nd, 2014, 08:55 AM
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I was feeling pretty overwhelmed when I joined my DDC. I feel much more at home here
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January 22nd, 2014, 09:27 AM
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I never joined the DDC I'm supposed to be in for that very reason.
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January 22nd, 2014, 09:36 AM
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Here, here! So thankful for the non-drama.
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January 22nd, 2014, 09:49 AM
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I love this group too... Everyone is so kind and supportive. I appreciate it so much.
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January 22nd, 2014, 10:37 AM
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Thanks for posting this! I totally, totally agree. I'm so grateful for all of you, and this board!
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January 22nd, 2014, 10:44 AM
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I agree! I like my DDC BUT, I am always afraid to post much because there are people who are a little on the rude side sometimes and I just don't want to be a part of it. I have been posting more often but try to ignore those people's comments if they are made. I've never run into anything like that on this board and I love it!
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January 22nd, 2014, 10:48 AM
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Courtney I'm the same way. I don't share alot in my DDC and mainly only share my fears in this group.
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January 22nd, 2014, 12:02 PM
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I'm not even in a DDC this time around and I'm fine with that I love it over here!
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January 22nd, 2014, 01:58 PM
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We have a really great group of ladies here. I think y'all are hilarious and wonderful It's hard to connect with people and feel like a family with so many different personalities but we all mesh well in here. I don't feel that closeness with my new PR.
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January 22nd, 2014, 02:20 PM
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I feel much more comfortable here also, and it's all because of how great all you ladies are. So glad there isn't any kind of drama or anything here!
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January 22nd, 2014, 06:28 PM
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I haven't felt lie there is any drama in my new DDC, but don't really feel connected to anyone yet either. Still feeling my way around to figure out what I want my home to be with this pregnancy!
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January 23rd, 2014, 01:25 PM
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I agree. My DDC with Addy has gone through a bit of drama on FB recently, but it was taken care of. They are still a great group, but I'm not sure that between this board and my DDC, that I would join another DDC. I will stick to this and that one and visit TTCAL, as well as WTTTC.
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January 23rd, 2014, 07:16 PM
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I'm not really connecting in the DDC's this time around. No one has been catty or anything. I'm just too busy to post most days and feel so far behind. I do check in on you ladies here a lot, just haven't been a big poster anywhere lately.
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January 28th, 2014, 01:55 AM
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I'm comfortable in my DDC. We haven't had any drama BUT we're just the Sept.2014 DDC so it's a pretty new DDC.
The only thing I don't like posting about there is loss or my feelings about it. Hearing "It will pass" or "everything will be fine" just isn't what I want to hear. And I know it isn't always the truth.
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January 28th, 2014, 02:32 AM
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Hugs, ladies.

This is my favourite board for a variety of reasons.
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