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I can't believe that he would want to try so soon. No way would I be ready to try so soon after giving birth and I don't blame you for not wanting to. I'm 40 and I don't think I would want to go through it all again so I don't think you are being close minded. You might just tell him that you guys can talk about it in 9 months and just give your body time to heal.
Thank you *Kiliki* for my beautiful siggy
No you're not being closed minded at all. Not only is your age a factor with body recovery, but I remember how much grief he gave you about things this time around. Plus I think he might want to live with the newborn he already has for a bit before thinking of trying again I couldn't even dream about having another one so quickly (not that we would I'm way to old and DH is getting the big V).
Hahaha! Thanks ladies! You are all so funny! We always wanted a bunch of kids but we both got sick and never had the chance to pop them out the past ten years. I guess now that we are both well, he wants to make up for lost time. Personally I'm feeling my age right now and kind of don't want kids in high school when I'm supposed to be retired.
__________________ Leia 42 yrs young
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Mommy to Big Brother our first Miracle Feb 24 2006
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