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September 18th, 2006, 08:12 AM
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Hey ladies-

Well, I started bleeding and clotting last night so I'm m/c'ing again. It's happening at exactly the same time of year and the same time of pregnancy (5 weeks 5 days) as I did last time so I think that something is wrong with me or DH. I'm going to demand that my dr. run some serious tests to find the problem.

Good luck ladies. I really have enjoyed my time with you and only wish you the best for the future.

Love you guys,

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September 18th, 2006, 08:26 AM
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I'm so sorry sweetie! I'm glad you're going to push for testing. When you're feeling up to it, come by the Recurrent Miscarriage & Pregnancy Loss board. The support there is wonderful and you'll see quite a few familiar faces.

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September 18th, 2006, 08:29 AM
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Hey ladies-

Well, I started bleeding and clotting last night so I'm m/c'ing again. It's happening at exactly the same time of year and the same time of pregnancy (5 weeks 5 days) as I did last time so I think that something is wrong with me or DH. I'm going to demand that my dr. run some serious tests to find the problem.

Good luck ladies. I really have enjoyed my time with you and only wish you the best for the future.

Love you guys,

Jen[/b]

Oh, i am so sorry. Big hugs to you and yes you make sure that you get some testing done. I know if it happens to me again, i'll be doing the same.....is this your 2nd? So sorry to hear this-let me know if you need anything or want to vent!
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September 18th, 2006, 08:38 AM
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I am so sorry to hear this.

Talk to your dr about getting some testing done on both you and DH. If you have a D&C, talk to your dr about testing the fetus to see what could have been wrong.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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September 18th, 2006, 09:43 AM
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You are in my thoughts. It's good that you are going to ask for additional testing. I know this is a hard time for you. Keep your head up and try to stay positive. I know it's hard, so know we are all praying for you!!!
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September 18th, 2006, 09:54 AM
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Oh Jen, my heart just is breaking right now!

You and DH are in my thoughts and prayers!!! I think some tests are needed and I know if it happens again this time around for me, I will be demanding tests too!!

I am so sorry Jen!!

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September 18th, 2006, 10:30 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear this!! After my 2nd m/c I demanded testing to be done and the tissue was also tested because I had a d&c. If you have any questions about testing or anything that I had done please feel free to PM me - we ended up going to a specialist also so I have some knowledge there. Hugs to you!
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September 18th, 2006, 10:44 AM
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Oh, sweetie, I am so so so sorry to hear this. I had 2 back to back early m/c's, so I understand the pain you're going through...I would also encourage you to come and visit the Recurrent Loss Board - the ladies there are wonderful and very helpul. I will be thinking of you and praying for you right now...
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September 18th, 2006, 11:20 AM
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Oh Jen, I am so sorry this is happening to you again. Definitely push you doctor for testing. Hugs.
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September 18th, 2006, 12:19 PM
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Jen, I posted on the ttc board, but I am hoping you get some answers. PM me if you need me.
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September 18th, 2006, 01:48 PM
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I'm so sorry.
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September 18th, 2006, 04:09 PM
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I am so sorry
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September 18th, 2006, 04:14 PM
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im so sorry jen
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September 18th, 2006, 08:14 PM
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I am so sorry to read this. It is so heartbreaking to go through. You are in my thoughts. Sending you much love-
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September 18th, 2006, 09:16 PM
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I'm so sorry. Definitely get the testing if it will make you feel better. After our 2nd loss, it helped me to know tha we were doing something proactive.
You're in my thoughts and prayers.
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September 19th, 2006, 01:20 PM
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I am so sorry!!!!
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