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September 29th, 2006, 07:17 AM
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Last night after DH and I "had a little fun" I went to the bathroom and everything had a tint of pink. I believe the end is slowing coming. I am just so angry, why can't things jsut start then, if it is coming, then start already. If things happen like I think they will, then a D&C will have to be done because my body doesn't recognize that the baby is gone! It is so frustrating.

I have a call into the doc and will keep you posted!

Thanks for listening and letting me get that out of my system!!

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September 29th, 2006, 07:49 AM
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sorry for your discomfort hope things start to get better for you
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September 29th, 2006, 08:24 AM
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I'm sorry you are feeling this way. Try to stay positive until you talk to your doctor. It can be totally normal to bleed a bit after intercourse, so try not to self-diagnose. I know it's hard because any sign is a bad sign, especially for those of us who have been through this. I'm praying for you, and hope everything turns out well.
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September 29th, 2006, 09:19 AM
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Nicole's right, Addie, it's pretty common to stain/spot a bit after having a little fun. You're still in my prayers.
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September 29th, 2006, 11:20 AM
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!!!! Oh honey, please stay positive until you KNOW something is wrong! I hope everything is alright. If my hopes and prayers can help in any way, you've got them!
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September 29th, 2006, 01:35 PM
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These things happen so frequently and everything is fine. I will hope and pray for the best for you.
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September 29th, 2006, 08:27 PM
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I have heard of women spotting after sex. Try to stay calm I know its not easy.
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September 29th, 2006, 08:48 PM
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I know it is easy to be discouraged, but I spotted so much in the beginning that my dr told me no sex til week 12. (that was fine by me!)
Hang in there and keep us posted!
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September 30th, 2006, 09:59 AM
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WARNING TMI!!

Last night after DH and I "had a little fun" I went to the bathroom and everything had a tint of pink. I believe the end is slowing coming. I am just so angry, why can't things jsut start then, if it is coming, then start already. If things happen like I think they will, then a D&C will have to be done because my body doesn't recognize that the baby is gone! It is so frustrating.

I have a call into the doc and will keep you posted!

Thanks for listening and letting me get that out of my system!!

Love Ya All!
Addie[/b]

Hang in there-I know how frustrating it can be, but dont think the worse quite yet-you still have to hold out hope that things can and will be fine. Keep me posted and PM me if you need anything at all! HUGS to yoU!

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September 30th, 2006, 02:27 PM
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I spotted twice after sex at the beginning too - once at 7wks & once at 8 I think (I knwo it was a week apart). Please don't gett too worried yet - if htere is no cramping & it doesn't last - you are probably still okay sweetie. Sending you love-
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October 2nd, 2006, 12:12 AM
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October 2nd, 2006, 08:02 AM
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Thanks girls for your posts, I am trying to stay optimistic!!

THe doctor called me and told me that he thinks the spotting is just irritation from our "relations" we had. It has stopped, I actually didn't have any after that one trip to the potty after our "relations" (Our doctor calls it "relations" so now he has me doing it ) Anyways, next Monday (oct 9th) is the next u/s, I will keep you all posted!

Thanks for being there for me girls, you have no idea how much I appreciate it!!
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October 2nd, 2006, 01:19 PM
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Oh honey, I have everything possible crossed for you! Lots of thoughts and prayers and sticky dust!
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October 2nd, 2006, 03:22 PM
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I'm still praying for you, Addie! I hope next week's u/s shows good things.

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LOL!! That's better than my doc. When he called after loss #2 to tell me about the chromosomal issue, he said, "so get with the hanky-panky and come see me when you're pregnant!" It was almost worse than talking birds and bees with my parents!
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October 2nd, 2006, 05:32 PM
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Thank heaven you are ok. I am happy for you. Now you aren't going to bd until baby is here you will be scared.

"relations" that cracks me up! I can just picture you in there trying to be all scared and serious but still wanting to crack up. You should call it "baby-dancing" to see if he reacts to it.
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October 2nd, 2006, 08:49 PM
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I am so glad that you posted a update. I think everything is going to be fine.
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