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I too got pg just after a m/c and have had mixed feelings. Sometimes I feel like I am doing wrong by the baby I lost by being happy. other times I know I needed this pregnancy to get me through that loss. My sister who suffered multiple miscarriages told me it gets easier but you always feel your loss as well as any guilt or questions in relation to it.
I felt the same way, at first I felt like I was being an awful Mom for getting so happy to be pg again, I got pg soon after my m/c too.
I realized (from the ladies at PG loss board) that my baby we lost is up in heaven looking down on us and is excited for us and is our new babies guardian angel already!!
So, I know exactly how you feel. But I did also feel at one time, that if I was happy then it was like I was "forgetting" my first....but I never will. I think everyone who has lost one feels the same way. It is normal!!