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  #1  
May 31st, 2007, 11:31 AM
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This Saturday would have been my due date. I feel so sad.
I still don't feel attached to this baby. I hope that will change real soon.
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May 31st, 2007, 11:59 AM
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May 31st, 2007, 12:25 PM
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Lots of hugs to you!! You will soon I promise, its still very early. Passing dates of due dates of our angels is very hard.
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May 31st, 2007, 01:52 PM
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I am sorry you're feeling so sad sweetheart. It was a little different for me, because my EDD anniversary for my m/c angel was toward the middle of July, and Gaby was due in mid October, so I'd already had two scans, and she'd started kicking by the time the EDD anni rolled around, so I had bonded with her a lot by then.

Please be gentle with yourself, allow yourself to feel whatever emotions come out, the EDD anni of a baby you've lost IS a really hard time, and after having an EDD anni where I wasn't pregnant, and one where I was - I can say the one where I was pregnant was harder.

You will bond with your baby - it will happen in its own time, but I know for me the bonding happened a lot faster once I'd had my 12w scan, and heard the h/b at my midwifes appointment

We are all here for you!
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May 31st, 2007, 02:06 PM
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Due dates and loss dates are so hard!!! I am so sorry sweetie. Wishing you the best and a speedy week with no tears. You will feel bonded to this baby soon enough. Just give it time.
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June 1st, 2007, 05:43 AM
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im sorry sweety..due dates ARE very hard..
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June 1st, 2007, 09:08 PM
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Many hugs to you!!! It was very hard for me to start to feel attached to this baby!!! As the weeks start to pass and the pg becomes more real I hope you can find the heart to start thinking that all will be well!!

Once that little baby starts moving in your belly and you can see it's little arms and legs at your u/s visits you'll know that this is all for real!!

In the mean time many best baby wishes and I hope you know we are all thinking of you!!
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June 2nd, 2007, 09:26 AM
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I still don't feel attached to this baby.[/b]
Some days I don't either. But I haven't passed my pregnancy loss point yet.


I hope that everything is going better than you thought today. My thoughts are with you.
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June 2nd, 2007, 06:25 PM
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Hugs. It's hard. I know. I passed my due date when I was approximately 7 weeks pregnant with this one. It took time to allow myself to get attached to this pregnancy, but once I saw the baby at the 20 week ultrasound, everything changed. It will change for you too in time.
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June 4th, 2007, 05:30 AM
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Thanks girls. Saturday was ok for me. I went to the beach with my DD she loves to play in the sand.
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