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  #1  
October 19th, 2007, 07:57 PM
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Long story short.....

Friday
- get results from last beta hcg - not good, only risen 80 in 2 days
- doctor asks me to go in, does internal, has a chat blah blah
- referred to acute gynaecological assessment clinic @ hospital - straight away
- get there, wait for freaking hours to be seen, get beta hcg drawn
- beta hcg starting to go down - lower than previous, but only just
- doctor pretty much tells me he thinks i have an ectopic pregnancy, come back in the morning for u/s

Saturday (which is today here)
- arrive for u/s at 9am.
- 10.30am go down for u/s
- 11.15am back from u/s - which showed nothing in uterus or tubes
- 1.45pm (!!!) finally see doctor, tells me he's pretty sure it's ectopic, come in on Sunday for beta hcg - if they haven't gone down significantly be prepared for surgery......

so anyways, that's it... basically tomorrow i either find that my beta hcg is going down well... or I go for surgery so that they can find & remove an ectopic pregnancy.

The doctor i saw today was such a...... *enter horrible word here* - he was so incompassionate it wasn't funny.

Kai has been great, but I know this is affecting him a lot as well... I'm not sure if he'll be able to be with me tomorrow if i need surgery, as he has to work, but he's going to meet me at the hospital in the morning, and i'd imagine that if i need surgery, he'll come up after work........

I just don't understand why this is happening

... i have a friend who is a member of JM, will get her to update for me tomorrow....
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October 19th, 2007, 08:17 PM
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So sorry to hear that
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October 19th, 2007, 09:01 PM
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Oh Emma, I'm so sorry
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October 19th, 2007, 09:59 PM
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... thank you both. I feel terrible saying it but I hope it's 'just' a miscarriage......
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October 19th, 2007, 10:58 PM
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Oh no, Im so sorry. I will pray that all goes well tomorrow and that you don't have to have surgery!
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October 19th, 2007, 11:20 PM
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I am so sorry Emma.
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October 20th, 2007, 03:34 AM
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I am so sorry for you. You are in my T&P.
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October 20th, 2007, 05:50 AM
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I am so sorry hun...hopefully you won't need surgery. I am sorry you have to go through a loss again.
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October 20th, 2007, 05:53 AM
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October 20th, 2007, 07:35 AM
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I'm so very sorry, Emma. I was hoping this wouldn't be what was happening.
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October 20th, 2007, 08:01 AM
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Emma.. that's horrible.. I hope everything goes as well as can be expected out of this situation.. You know where I'm at if you wanna chat..

Let us know...
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October 20th, 2007, 08:27 AM
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Oh Emma I am so sorry. This whole thing has been so awful for you and now to be told you might have surgery...well I don't even know what to say. I am really sorry you are going through all this. I hope you don't have to have surgery tomorrow. I will be thinking about and praying for a good outcome.
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October 20th, 2007, 09:05 AM
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I am so very sorry
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October 20th, 2007, 11:01 AM
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I am so sorry for you loss! I will keep you in my thoughts!
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October 20th, 2007, 12:38 PM
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October 20th, 2007, 02:31 PM
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I am so sorry! You will in my T&P. Hope you and your family are doing okay
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October 20th, 2007, 03:08 PM
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I am very sorry to hear this Emma. I will be praying for you and hoping no surgery need be involved. We're here for you.
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October 20th, 2007, 04:08 PM
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Emma I am so sorry to hear this update!! My thoughts and prayers are with you and Kai both. I know how much the two of you wanted this little surprise. Take care of yourself and I hope that you don't have to end up having the surgery. Take care of yourself and we are always here for you!!!

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October 20th, 2007, 04:35 PM
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Emma, I am so sorry to hear the news! It is breaking my heart! I wish this didn't have to happen. I am hoping all goes well & you will be in my thoughts until we hear an update.
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October 20th, 2007, 05:45 PM
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Emma, I had no idea, I am so, so sorry!!

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