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Well Im having my 1st trimester scan on Mon. I will be exactly 13 weeks. My last scan I was 9 weeks and I was freaking out before hand. This time, Im freaking out thinking that something is wrong. I think after the two losses that its just easy for me to think that I will have a bad outcome. This is my 6th baby and my 8th pregnancy. I got the round ligament pain before I knew I was pg. Now I have this crampy feeling in my right side. ITs not always there and doesn't go along with spotting or anything like that. I just have myself ready for the worst.
Why can't I just enjoy this pregnancy? I try and I do well, until I start thinking about the scans. I almost wish I didn't have to have any scans. I get so nervous every time I go in. Thing is, IM almost positive that I have felt the baby too, but guess what? I talk myself out of it.
Grrr this is annoying!!
I wish all of us could just move in to one big house together so we can all obsess together!!
It is soooo hard not to be nervous, and it is hard for some people to understand.....but yes, Like Doodle said,"Best we can do is hold onto each other and hope like heck"
try to relax hon....
we are all here for you !
and then you can say the same thing to me when I hit 13wks!
I have had FOUR scans during this pregnancy and everytime I get SO nervous and think "this is it, this time they will see something wrong" I don't think it ever goes away. Try to breath deep. I won't tell you to try to relax b/c I know that is impossible! It's almost Monday though so hang in there for a few more days.