[brittneyrose825]

not sure if you guys ever reallly check this site anymore but i figured id ask anyways!

my boyfriends grandmother died and her wake is in a couple hours. We arent sure weather or not its acceptable to bring a baby to the wake,this ishis dads side of the family and we never ever see them so its probably a once in a lifetime sorta thing for them all to see her. Do you think it is disrespectful to and just find a babysitter?

thanks!

[smika]

My little brother was just over 1 he went to our grandfathers wake last year. My mom just held him and planned to bring him outside if he got loud or upset. I would say bring her! His grandmother loved her, so why should she be excluded. (disclaimer: I'm also from a family that hates no kid weddings, so I may be in the minority)

[brittneyrose825]

its a hard discion ! audreys in the obituary just want to do the right thing!

[martilynne]

I would bring her.

[Ana*Addey*OliveMommy]

I agree I would take her

[jml]

I would bring her.

[brittneyrose825]

Thanks everyone! We ended up bringing her and everyone was so happy to meet her She was a really good girl and smiled and pointed at everyone .. shes really into pointing at everrrything now lol

[BabyLover]

I love the picture in your siggy. She's adorable!

[smika]

I'm glad everything went smoothly! How did her head tilt turn out?

[Morgans Mommy]

My cousin passed away last month and we brought Morgan, but DH took her out for the funeral b/c she was getting loud and fussy. I woudl say bring her, but make sure you have someone that can take her out. If it is your S/O's family, then maybe it should be you that woudl take her out. Hope everything goes well!

[brittneyrose825]

Originally Posted by Tiffany8620

I love the picture in your siggy. She's adorable!

Thank you!!

Originally Posted by TMK914

I'm glad everything went smoothly! How did her head tilt turn out?

We still arent positive why her head tilts like it does, The neurologist still thinks its migranes. We have to take her into boston to see the neaurologist again when her head is tilting bad. Which is hard because it happens soo sudden with no warning and then just goes away after a few days or a week. So it makes it hard to give work enough notice to get a day off. so crappy. I feel so badly for her because she must be verrrry uncomfortable!

[smika]

poor thing I hope everything gets all fixed up soon!

[jjc99]

i'm sorry you love your BF's grandmother. But i'm happy you took Audrey. i'm sure the family enjoyed it and it's always good to have some smiles/laughs through tears.

and good luck with the head tilt. <3