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  #1  
July 23rd, 2012, 09:58 PM
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Ok so im 19 about to be 20 my boyfriend is 26 about to be 27. He has never been able to get anyone pregnant and in mexico while getting a physical chek up for military they told him "

hey u know u cant have kids right?" all he thought to say was oh yea...but he dint know.... He never got any test done either.... So we have been having unorotected sex for about 7

months and now i think im pregnant. So i had my last period on april 7 for 3 days which is normal for me... I had sex on the 13,18,21. And on the 18 & 21 i had a tiny spotting after sex... Only when i wiped And for the last two days ive been throwing up have headaches cant eat because stuff makes me sick Constipation for a week... Dizzy spells... And can not sleep. I have lower back pain like im going to start my period And yesterday and today i felt some weird sensation on my breast like something crawlinh towards the middle of each one...

So today i went and peed i saw some pinkish white discharge floating.... Then i wiped and light pink blood So 5 min later i pee again and pink blood when i wiped.... And now the blood looks really bright like period blood. I had right pelvic pain yesterday and today i had like cramps.... I still have cramps and back pain. My period isnt do until another 2 good weeks....

Idk if this is irrevelant or not.... but my boyfriend told me that for 2 days he has been getting dizzy and nacious .... he doesnt want to eat... when regularly hes a goooood eater....

Im not on birthcontrol and he doesnt pull out i know im allways at risk of getting pregnant but im so confused by all this... When can i test? I think i ovulate around the 18-21.... Also on june i had sex before and after ovulation.... But i got my period so i donth think thats irrelevent.... Any help please ive read about.... Implantational bleeding... But not common ... and about early miscarriges.... Please help me.
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July 24th, 2012, 08:14 AM
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I find your post confusing because you say your last period was april but then you say that you had a period in june...

Maybe I'm just misunderstanding the way I'm reading it.
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July 24th, 2012, 09:25 AM
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Yes my last period was this april 7 but i meant i had a period on june and i had sex before and after ovulation on june.... As well as in april i just thought the more info i gave the better sorry if its too confusing... Ive never had ovulation cramps or spotting either... Thank you any infobhelps i dnt see a doctor until friday...
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July 24th, 2012, 12:57 PM
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still confusing, so your last period was in april or june?
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July 24th, 2012, 01:41 PM
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July 24th, 2012, 02:04 PM
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I agree, it is confusing, twice you said you had a period in June. If your last period was April you should most definitely show on a test now, however it sounds as if you are getting your period now.
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July 24th, 2012, 05:12 PM
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Sorry girls its my first time here and first time going througbt his... just forgot to read my post before posting Nd idk why i sayed april ahhg j know why you all are confused now i meant july 7 was my last period
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July 24th, 2012, 05:53 PM
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Ok, have you taken a test? If you were pregnant and your LMP was june 7th then you would be like 6-7 weeks along, a test would show a very obvious positive. If it doesn't then it could be that something caused to not to ovulate this cycle or ovulate late. That is if you don't already have long cycles. If you have "normal" cycles then you should have had a period closer the beginning of July. Did you do anything to determine ovulation? Did you mean the 18-21 of june or july??

Definitely take a test and go from there.
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July 24th, 2012, 08:20 PM
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My last period was july 7 and ..... I determine ovulation cycle with an app i dowloaded on my phone.... Its allways accurate on when i get my period... And 18-21 of july
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July 24th, 2012, 09:25 PM
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No test... Nd i felt some discharge i cheked my panty linner right now and its brown liquidy. Small quater size spot.
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July 25th, 2012, 07:41 AM
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Ok so I thought the last period was JUNE 7th. If it was July 7th, then you should wait til around August 3rd to test with a urine test, if your next period doesn't show up.

What you say here and what you inboxed me seems like you are getting extreme symptoms and maybe you are noticing things you normally don't because you have that wonder of if you are pregnant. Of course, it is possible that maybe your signs are from pregnancy, probably unlikely depending on what your bf's issues are that make him not considered fertile.
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July 25th, 2012, 03:39 PM
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Ok i bought 3 hpt toda took one n negative... Peed wiped n light brick color..spot... Not spotting now... I will take another test fri... Then the 3rd... Than u sooo very much!!!
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