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I Know I shouldnt complain since he's out making money..but why does 15days drag on soooo long..SO works the oil rigs ...im grateful because he hasnt worked in the past 6months...but now its hard to get used to him leaving again.
I just had to vent....none of my friends understand and always tell me well atleast he is working...but expect me to be their shoulder when their DH or SO goes away for 2days.
Its just hard...but only 7 more sleeps till he is home for a week..YAY
Only 7 more days... I can't think of anything to say that might get your mind off it. Your ticker says 10 months till your wedding day.. is there anything you have been putting off that might take your mind off your so being gone for the next few days? Maybe take the time planning a special date or something for when he's home? I hope the next week goes by quickly for you!
Patricia, wife to Chris and mom to Dominick with baby boy #2 due this summer! Forever missing my two little angels.
Its hard. We were forced apart off and on for about three months. Its not easy. And thats always when others are complaining about how much they miss their SO, even if its only for 8hrs, or overnight. Its like, yeah, you're *****ing at the wrong person. Shut up. But dont actually SAY that, but want to. Ugh.
i so know what u mean when u say u want to just say shut-up! i have that feeling all the time.
I have been trying to do things...like im planning my wedding..we have the place where we are getting married booked, ive picked my theme and colors and all that stuff. But when i start looking for songs..i miss him more LOL.
I bake ALOT and try and do things with my daughter..like tonight we are going to the movies to see cloudy with a chance of meatballs. And we go shopping...but it just feels like days drag on. We will get back into the routine again and when breakup rolls around in may i will be ready to strangle him by the end of june lol.
DH was offerred a job just a couple of days ago where he works two weeks on and two weeks off.. it's good money but it's across the country. They would fly him back and forth every two weeks. But we haven't decided yet for this very reason..
I hope the next 7 days go by fast. My dh went back to school 2 years ago for 10 months but he was home on the weekends and I found the constant switch in routines hard and I missed him so I imagine extended periods would be rough. My dh goes away again in nov for 2 months and I am already dreading it. My dh has also talked about working away for the money but we haven't decided yet.
Owen, Avery, Samantha and forever missing Jake born still 08/01/99.
I have to admit..the money is good but i dunno ..id rather be a family then have money..u know what I mean?
Last night we had a rough night on the phone, and he was ready to just leave and come home because it is hard on him when im having a bad day and he cant just hug me. But we talked it over and he's staying...he got good news today and thier next hole they are drilling will only be 45mins from here.
and to think we would have been 10mins away from where he is going if we didnt move lol.
Cloudy with a chance of meatballs was excellent!! it was hilarious..you should go see it!