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February 2nd, 2009, 01:39 AM
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This might sound weird, and I know its early to be thinking about it....But I really dont want another c-section but I am terrified of being in labour again. Not because of the pain and what not...but becasuse I havnt done it for almost 8 years and what if I have forgot what to do And I am also scared of my scar rupturing. And also of going over due...because I have read they cant induce people who are wanting a VBAC. So if I go over it would result in anoher section anyway

Please tell me I am being stupid. These thoughts have been scaring me these past few days
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February 2nd, 2009, 01:42 AM
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hun i dunno about v bacs i know a friend of mine whos had a vbac she planned it from finding out she was preg again she went into labour herself so dont know about being induced, best to sit down with your midwife or consultant
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February 2nd, 2009, 01:46 AM
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I agree with Claire - ask the m'w at your next visit, what your options will be.
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February 2nd, 2009, 01:47 AM
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Yeah Im seeing my midwife in a couple of weeks anyway so I guess I can ask her then
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February 2nd, 2009, 01:48 AM
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Its always best to find out early on instead of just assuming what can or you think can happen... you may even be surpised at the ammount of options you have these days x
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February 2nd, 2009, 01:57 AM
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If your docs are like mine they'll let you have a trial labour, which means when you go into labour they'll moniter you closely. I was induced as my waters were leaking and were bright green, I wanted a VBAC too but didn't get one.
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February 2nd, 2009, 03:01 AM
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My friend just had a VBAC 2 weeks ago! Don't worry just ask your midwife x
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February 2nd, 2009, 03:04 AM
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Id def ask your midwife about what your options are, you prob have more than you think.
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February 2nd, 2009, 03:16 AM
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to the other ur midwife will be able to give u the info u need
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February 2nd, 2009, 04:09 AM
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Definitely speak to your midwife and find out what your options are. Hopefully it will help put your mind at rest.
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February 2nd, 2009, 04:19 AM
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ive had 2 VBACs and at our hospital they will only let you be in labour for so ;long before they section
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February 2nd, 2009, 04:36 AM
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hugs....I hope you get your VBAC...I agree about talking it through with your midwife...maybe the VBAC board has some info too?
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February 2nd, 2009, 10:48 AM
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Thanks girls. I will deffo ask the midwife when she comes out to see me. And I will deffo visit the VBAC board
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February 3rd, 2009, 02:42 AM
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I would deffo ask your midwife hun xx
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