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  #21  
February 3rd, 2009, 02:08 AM
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wow sarah a man with no sex drive ive never heard of that b4 mike has a high sex drive me not as much sometimes its like i have no sex drive at all an we have spells were we dont dtd as much but sometimes at the end of the day ur just to knackered an all u think of is going to sleep! we dtd at least once a week its not often we go a week without sometimes its an every nite thing
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February 3rd, 2009, 02:18 AM
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Gary has a highe sex drive then me but i am proud to say mine is slowely getting back up there!
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February 3rd, 2009, 03:06 AM
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Oh Linzi every night I can't cope with that!!! we dtd the night before Max was born, when I was 3 months preg and when I got preg and probably the month before as well so 4 times in the last year
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February 3rd, 2009, 03:11 AM
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Richie's sex drive isn't as high as mine. I blame all the meds he's on for blood pressure and angina etc. Mine has calmed down since Alyssa, I used to want in everyday, more than once!
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February 3rd, 2009, 03:28 AM
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lucy mike couldnt cope with 4 times a year hed go crazy! when we have a quite spell normally down to me he says sex is an important part of a relationship and he feels closer to me when we have sex regular which i feel the same! hes often said on quite spells he wants that spark in the relationship we had at the beginning but after 2 kids i dout we will ever get back to that the excitement of a new relationship which normally lasts at least a year and the excitement of dtd in public places an more than once a nite basically grabbing every opportunity we could as we didnt live together i have started to make more of an effort and to be honest my sex drive has increased recently
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February 3rd, 2009, 03:36 AM
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but lets say i can be in bed totally naked and it wont tempt him into ANYTHING!![/b]
I could walk about nakee all day and nothing would happen. I'm not sure if low sex drive is linked to ED - I assume so. But I don't have a high drive either. we haven't DTD since 2 days before I Od and got preggy. Neither of us has missed it TBH. Sometimes I do (like now when it could stir things up!!). When we got married we didn't DTD on our wedding night or honeymoon, in fact prob for about a year after. It's just not as importnat to us as other things. I've had a bad sexual experience in the past so it prob explains why.

We're happy tho, I guess that's what matters
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February 3rd, 2009, 04:21 AM
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I definitely have a much higher sex drive than James. He's happy with DTD once a week and I would quite happily DTD every night!!!! Sex is an important part of our relationship, but it's not the most important thing to us and we are happy with the way things are.

At the moment though James won't come anywhere near me at all! The fact that the baby is on the move freaks him out too much to be able to DTD!!
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February 3rd, 2009, 04:22 AM
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Aww Fi, that is all that matters!!!

We are the same Linzi, we were both young when we got together and living with parents too, it was all exciting and first times for both of us and I don't think we'll ever get that spark back! When I look at old photo's of us I can 'see' the spark and it makes me think 'what happened to us?' but I think it's normal, just growing up and having responsibilities, job/house/kids etc. is stressful!
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February 3rd, 2009, 04:24 AM
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I think everyone grows out of that 'honeymoon' period eventually, when you no longer feel the urge to jump each others bones all the time!!
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February 3rd, 2009, 04:27 AM
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I definitely have a much higher sex drive than James. He's happy with DTD once a week and I would quite happily DTD every night!!!! Sex is an important part of our relationship, but it's not the most important thing to us and we are happy with the way things are.

At the moment though James won't come anywhere near me at all! The fact that the baby is on the move freaks him out too much to be able to DTD!![/b]
This freaked Gary out aswell, Espeically when she kicked him when he was on top
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February 3rd, 2009, 04:29 AM
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LMAO Emma!!!!
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February 3rd, 2009, 04:34 AM
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February 3rd, 2009, 04:37 AM
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February 3rd, 2009, 04:38 AM
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February 3rd, 2009, 06:50 AM
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we have sex 2x - 3x a week have done since kids lee would ge in sane and probs moan... sometimes its him that wants it more than me and then its me
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February 3rd, 2009, 07:35 AM
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w dont have it that often, Dec seems to have a low sex drive as well, I think its the insulin and chesterol tabs, we have spells where we do it alot and then not for ages.
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