[SK.]

Urk, why are people so... Stupid, I think is a good word right now lol.


The EX asked me (well asked my mum to ask me) to change the day of Matteas birth certificate because his uncle is going up to Bradford next Tuesday (I plan to sign it that day) & comes back on the Saturday & he wanted to sign it. Well I got his uncle to comfirm it (& comfirm he'd bring him down) & then said if he could keep civil, ask how his kids are etc... I'd CONSIDER it.


Well I then got a call at 11pm last night of his uncle, he just got phone the phone with the EX's mum & could personaly hear the EX ranting & swearing (his words) about how he couldnt wait to see these kids & saying all the threats he planned to carry out when he came down. His uncles now refused to bring him down.

His uncles asked me to give him til Monday 12pm as a deadline to see if he can calm the EX down & to give him chance to reconsider bringing him down. Ive said I'll think about it - I know he wont change his mind & her birth certificate will be signed Tuesday but atleast it shows that Im being 'open' to allowing him being on it.


I knew when he messaged me asking to change it, it wasnt cause he wanted to be a caring father, I said all along he had to have another reason behind it.

Stupidness! The EX doesnt think the information gets passed back. I try to give him chance to be a dad & he messes it up himself lol.

[claire1979]

just cut all ties hun

[RandomRobot]

i agree, this is going to carry on unless you just do that, hes not going to change

and i certainly wouldnt even consider putting his name on the cert, id say he has lost all rights to that

[~*Lisa*~]

I would go and sign it without him. he doesnt deserve to have his name on it. You know that if his name is on it he has 50% of paternal rights?

he doesnt deserve to be a father.

[SK.]

He texted my mum a moment ago saying his uncle wont bring him down & wont give him a reason why & can I find him away down.

I just told him straight I aint changing the birth certificate, he only has him self to answer to & that his uncle wouldnt of changed his mind for no reason & that its a shame he cares more about making threats than these children

Im signing it Tuesday, its tough luck. I'll tell the family I'll possibly consider changing it but I his uncle aint going to bring him down & I dont want him on it, but atleast I can say to Mattea when she was older that up until he made more threats I was willing to allow him on it & he's the one that ruined it all.

[sarah*]

you really need to cut all ties with him, i really dont understand why you havent? he is no good to you and the children, he deserves nothing from them or you!